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Q: i will be a new freshman in High school, will i get picked on like in Mean Girl movie?

well here are reason why i might (and i am already being picked on in my bus because they are racist) but i am pretty decent in friends and cliques... i dont get picked on by popular kids

1. i am Asian

so in bus there is my neighborhood and other neighborhood where all black people lives and few of them pick on me for being asian.

2. i am not skinny, i am not obese because when people guess my weight, they guess less then 20 pounds then i actually weigh, but i can lose lot more pounds.

3. i have this enemy who was my ex best friend.


so please help how to avoid those mean racist people in my bus and my enemy... and how to get a boy friend ! =) (sorry about the last one but i am desperate)
don't sweat it. highschool isn't all as bad as they make it out to be in the movies. infact, most of the drama that ever goes in is because of preps. (one of the reasons i sort of didnt fall into their crowd). as of looks, this is probably one of the best places to be different or stand out, because everyone is like that. highschool is so big and there's so many diverse people that you getting picked on will be an unlikely. if it helps, i'm asian too lol. and though i'm not as obese as you're making yourself out to be, which i dobut you really are, i'm pretty short (even for an asian). i'm going into my sophomore year and honestly, besides the tremendous homework and hard thinking skills, highschool is fun.

definately be patient with the guys. i felt like that as well when i first started highschool and now i sort of regret getting so into guys when i should have focused more on school (nerd to the max, yeah i know). there's alot of bad guys out in highschool, so don't wear your heart on your sleeve too often.

cool thanks. at least somebody understands me, see this one person kinda dissed our ethnic background. you will see if you see the answers on my question. saying that asians are losers or whatever like that...so that kinda hurted but because of you i can just ignore them or better report them and think better about my self

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this site has been down for a while but i'm starting it up again. i've been really busy with school work and other activities but now you can ask me questions again.


anyways about myself, i've gone through alot in my life and it's all made me stronger so i can relate to nearly any situation. i really love people. when i get older i do plan on doing something in this sort of field, maybe psychiatry. i'm currently a junior in highschool and i devote all of my time to either my friends, theatre, or school. yeah i'm sort of a nerd. if i can't get on here to reply to your questions and its urgent then you can always feel free to IM me on AIM and i'll try to help you on there. i'm basically always on.

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