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well there's this guy i like..and we've dated before and we always seem to fight now but we're the best of friends..well today we got in a big fight..and i told him i didn't want to hang out with him again this summer (we don't live in the same town) and he's like w/e and he got all mad at me..later i told him i was sorry and i still want to hang out with him and he's like yeah right and than i got an e-mail from him and it was this chain that he sent to me and it said that like he will always be there for me and everything and how i'm a great friend..but later he sent me a message when i wasn't there and it said i hate you (one time i was talking about someone hating me and he said "who could hate you"). so it kills me to know that he hates me. and he pretty much said that he could never hate me. i have no idea what happened..cause we always kid about that stuff be he didn't say he was kidding or anything..i'm soo worried about our friendship now..and i didn't even do anything..i love this kid right to death and i would do anything for him..i never knew how much the words "i hate you" could feel until you hear it from the one person you would do anything in this world for..even give up your life for them to keep living. it hurt me so bad..and i just want to tell him but i don't know if i can even express to him how much it hurt me. please help me..i just want to know what to say to him..i know it's really what i feel i should say but i need some help. i rate high! please help me! i'm stuck in the gutter on this one. =/

aww hun i*m sry, but i want you to know (which you prolly already do) when people get into arguments a lot of times they say things they really don*t mean. He was prolly just as hurt as you are now because you told him you didn*t wanna hang out with him so he was defending himself b/c he felt bad. I really think you should tell him your sry for everything you said and that you don*t wanna let something this small get in the way of your friendship, maybe tell him tomorro tho so he*ll have time to cool down. If he*s still resistant then let him have his space til he comes back to you(which WILL happen) i hope everything works out, xoxo, chelsea

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