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I really like this guy and he doesnt even know i exist even though i am friends with alot! and i mean alot of his friends, and it seems weird he hasnt met me yet...i know alot about him because my friends talk about him ALOT and so is started liking him and i guess he'll never like me, and i dont want to go out with anyone else because i want him and no1 else...i am like shy aroudn guys i like alot and even if i was aroudn him with my freinds i'd be nervous to saay 1 word to him...so months ago i started cutting and you probably will say "dont cut its bad" or shit like that but i cant stop and i dont really want to because it gets alot of stress and anger out and i REALLY like him and I CANT STOP CUTTING and no i am not going to tell someone like my parents my mom already treats me like a fucking 10 year old and would be so disapointed and shit...and i dont cut that bad so i dont really need a shrink/psychologist or what ever...
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Unloved confused cutter
well i don*t know exactly what you want me to answer so i*ll try my best. #1 about the cutting, I won*t lecture you cuz shit, lectures suck! but i know how you feel about cutting, i*ve done it before (over a guy too.. psh boys) but yeah. OK so i mean as much as you don*t wanna hear it you shouldn*t cut yourself over a boy and you might think he*s amazing but you haven*t really gotten to know him. If you like him so much you should try to get to know him. The next time he*s around try to make conversation even if it*s hard. just be like hey. and what i always do even if i know EVERYTHING about them, i act like i don*t. I ask them their name and stuff and what you need to do is get his IM screen name (if you have one) because you get to know sum1 really well over IM b/c people are more honest. He prolly does notice you but doesn*t know if you notice him b/c your not trying to get to know him. Maybe you could have one of your friends that*s friends with him talk about you (good of course) and see if something happens!! I hope i helped! xoxo, chelsea
(Rating: 5) i already have his s/n and you did help