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HELP ME! I WILL RATE 5s FOR ANYONE WHO TRYS TO HELP! i am going out with this guy that i really like and i kinda like this other guy to and he likes me and idk what to do cause i like the guy i am going out with and i dont want us to break up! what is a better choice. THANKS SO MUCH
If you really like your bf then stay with him! The other guy should respect that you are in a relationship right now. If he likes you then he should wait and see if you and your bf work out or not. You should do the same. How well do you know this other guy? Believe it or not but people act different when someone is dating another person. I've been there and done that so I can really relate to your problem. I had been dating my bf of 6 months and I met this amazingly hot and sweet guy. He seemed perfect and there was something about him that I really, REALLY liked. He seemed so different from my bf and he actually took me out and hung out with me while my bf was off being a dumbass. In the end I broke up with my bf for other reasons that had nothing to do with the other guy. But the other guy totally changed after I became single again. And things never worked out the way I thought they would. Its a true statement: People like what they can't have. If you haven't noticed alot of guys will go after girls that are taken already because its a challenge. They have a guy, and it seems impossible for them to get the girl, but if they can they act like it's some sort of accomplishment. So trust me... stay with your bf. I'm not sure how long you have been with him, how much you like him, or any other important factors. I suggest you make a pro and con list of the two guys. That can really help. Another thing to consider: Is there any hidden issues that you secretly have against your bf? Are there some things he has done since you two have been dating that might make you try and run to this other guy? If there is then DON'T go to the other guy. Although my feelings for the other guy in my relationship were strong, it wasn't the reason why I broke up with my bf. I had some hidden major problems with him that couldn't be worked out in the end. So never EVER let another guy cause you and your bf to break up. Just go with the flow and stay with your bf. Don't take the chance of switching to another guy, cause that not only hurts you but it hurts your bf as well and it might be a HUGE mistake in the end, so why risk it? I hope my advice has helped you and remember its your choice, but just follow your heart and everything should work out for the best.
~Sherah
(Rating: 5) thanks :) u helped and i think other ppl should rate u 5s cause u really help