My fiancee wants to have sex, and the bad thing is, IM SCARED OF SEX. I am almost positive my hymen is intact, because I don't masturbate, im a virgin,and I detest tampons. Any suggestions?? And since I know were getting married in August, don't tell me to wait, because he's talking about sex on our wedding night, and since I've already told him Im scared, he still wants it, wich I don't blame him, were both virgins, we both dont have diseases of any kind, and after all, IT IS OUR WEDDING NIGHT, so its not furnication (since were both Christians) so please help me, because I'm scared of the blood and the pain. Btw, is it true that when you pee after sex it hurts? My mother said it hurts the first couple times you have sex, and that you bleed, and it hurts, and it burns when you pee for weeks. Is any of this true? Plz help me.
Not all women feel pain during their first time, but most women also masturbate with object or use tampons. Alot of times, when a man knows his partner is a virgin, he'll penetrate her using his fingers. It loosens you up so it doesn't hurt as bad as the penis. You most likely won't BLEED, it could just stretch and not tear. You could use an object to stick up there a few times a week so youre not as tight during your first experience. Good luck and God bless!
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Thank you! All be well with you and God bless you too!
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