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Q: Ok so I met a girl at a picnic. Shes very shy and so am I. Im 21 shes 19. I saw her again at another picnic the week after and I asked her for her number and got it and we hung out that whole night. I called her Tuesday and like she didn’t ask one question and I opened up somehow and asked a lot. Thing is shes very shy and actually never had a boyfriend before because she focused on family and school. So what do I do to open her up and find if she even likes me. Any advice is helpful.
P.S. What would a good first date be for some one who never had a bf?
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you already said that you've been open with her, so open her up to your feelings. tell her how you feel, don't be so strong though. don't be like, "i like you sooo much and i want to be with you so badly." that might scare her off (even more so since she hasn't actually dated yet). tell her that you think she's a great person and it'd be nice if there was a near future date with her..then ask her if she feels the same. re-assure her that it's totally fine if the feeling isn't given back, and that she's a worthwhile girl to wait for.
since she's shy it might be a good idea to make the date seem more like a hangout. I don't know her personality nor personally so i couldn't tell you. but either go with simple and nice, or huge and memorable. hope i helped
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Well she has a perfect personality. Doesnt drink,smoke,party. Never in trouble, very sweet and caring. Very honest and upfront.
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this site has been down for a while but i'm starting it up again. i've been really busy with school work and other activities but now you can ask me questions again.
anyways about myself, i've gone through alot in my life and it's all made me stronger so i can relate to nearly any situation. i really love people. when i get older i do plan on doing something in this sort of field, maybe psychiatry. i'm currently a junior in highschool and i devote all of my time to either my friends, theatre, or school. yeah i'm sort of a nerd. if i can't get on here to reply to your questions and its urgent then you can always feel free to IM me on AIM and i'll try to help you on there. i'm basically always on.
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