LiLReBeL6907's

advice column

about

advice

Hey whats up ok id appreciate if you all read this it hurt's so much to esplain but it would mean the world to me if you answered it, I will rate evryone a 5just for reading my problem!!! Thanks!


-Ok my name is stephanie I am 15yrs old and I live in jacksonville florida, I have lived here since I was a baby I was born and raised here. Thing is I have a boy im inlove with and I know its hard to find someone that you will love and care for and stuff but I really do! It all started in the 6th grade I had alot of fun and stuff and I met Josh I didn't really liked him and stuff but we were always best freind's and I told him everything and we would always mess around with each other and stuff. But we went out for like a day but I told him he was too much of a friend to me. So then like we were bet friends alll 6th grade, Then round the corner 7th grade came, And I still kept in touch all summer and we got together and I swear he was my first kiss, first serious bf everything (and yes im still a virgin). But yeah we gott into 8th grade and went on with out realtionship so we were like best friends at the same time but like middle school sweethearts if that makes since. We kinda grew up with eachother and changed like with each other and like see the thing is he moved last summer, And I talk to him like occcasionally on the computer and he talks to me and like I called him like few monthes ago to check up on him and we called each other today. And I kno he is coming in 10days to Jacksonville to visit. Thing is its hard to say but I love him alot and like ive only been in like what 2 relationships since me n josh split cause he had to move. And like I dont kno something tells me he wont be stayin here cause he told me he doesnt know if he is gonna move down here yet cause like his mom is poor and stuff and his sis is in college and he doesnt wanna b like in her way cause she is busy and stuff. So like I dont kno what to do honestly im freakin out and I know if he comes back likehe is to visit im gonna get even more attached to him then I already am! But he said he will try n talk to his sis bout it, But I dont kno her so I really cant judge her actions if he wanted to move back! I really wish there was something I could say that is really sweet and will make him come back!! PLEASE ANYONE I LOVE THIS BOY TO DEATH JUST ANSWER ME!!! I have aol my screenname is MOMMYSLILBOO so please answer me! I appreciate it all and Ill rate you all a 5!

-stephanie-

Wow.... I'm speechless! You must really be in love. And it definently has it's down sides. But it is so amazing that you love him that much that you and him stayed in touch after he moved. Most realtionships are not like that, especially you and him going from friends, to best friends, to on-and-off couple, to best friends again. Him coming back is awesome for you. You have 10 days with him for sure so spend every second you have with him. And if he already doesn't know how you feel then tell him you love him and you hope he can stay. Just try not to get your hopes up to much, because if he can't stay it will be even harder for you to say goodbye and watch him leave you again. Just remember that everything in life happens for a reason. You love this guy, no doubt about it, and if he doesn't know, then let him. I'm sure he feels the same way. And I hope that he gets to stay, because for you only being 15 and finding a love that lasts, its only fair that you and him get to be together. Just hope and pray for the best and Carpe Diem (Seize the moment). Good luck! ~Sherah

[view]