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ok so i met this kid on the internet (same grade as me... 10th) and we hung out a couple times and i kinda started to like him but then i noticed he was liking this other girl(9th grade) and i didnt really care that much cuz we were good friends... but he goes to a different school and she goes to mine and she has a bad reputation that he knows nothing about... i mean shes cheated on boys many times before and i think he really likes her and i dont want him to get hurt but i dont kno how to tell him with out him gettin mad at me and possibly runing out friendship.... please help!

i rate for good replys!!

thanx so much!!


brOk3n h3art3d xO

Alright, it seems that you might be into your guy friend and maybe your a little jealous that he now has a girlfriend. And of course you care about him getting hurt. But how well do you really know this girl? Rumors spread so quickly and most of the time they aren't even true. Here's a real life example. Last year I kissed my (then) boyfriend by the coke machine near the gym during lunch. By the end of the week everyone was talking about me having "sex with him" in the bleachers. I was like wtf! All I'm saying is, just becuase you've heard she is some big cheating slut doesn't mean she is. I suggest you lay low and don't mention the rumors that you've heard. Becuase they might not even be true. Try to be-friend his new gf if you want and that way if she ends up cheating on him, or she is planning on it you will know for sure. Plus, when you confront you guy friend about what you discovered he will have more reason to believe you. ~Sherah

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(Rating: 5) wow.. thanx soo much for the advice! i think at first i was a little jealous... but now i really dont care much anymore and im just gonna let them do their own thing... sorry to hear what happend to you... thats brutal... and rumors do suck!! thanx again for the advice!!
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