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the guy i like said he wanted to get closer to me, but the only way he could do so, is if i told him what i was thinking instead of telling him nothingall the time.. what does this mean?!
He wants you to open up to him. Maybe he feels you are holding back about some things, and being secretive. And at some time, this can be something guys like. A little mystery is a good thing. But if you keep not telling him things, he's going to think that you are messing with his mind. And no one likes that. Plus, guys have insecurities just like girls. He might be totally open with you about something, and when he opens up, he wants you to open up too. Everyone wonders what their other partner is thinking and feeling. When they don't know it makes them insecure about the relationship. They may feel a certain way about the person, but since their partner is so quiet about what they are thinking and feeling, how do they know that the other person feels the same way? Exactly my point. Just open up to him. Let him know you trust him. Tell him something you have never told anyone before. It'll make him feel that you want to get closer to him and let him into your life. ~Sherah
(Rating: 5) thanks!!!! thats the kind of advice i was looking for!! your awesome!! =) thanks a ton!!!!