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Q: okay..well my friend is going out with this guy that i like..i thought that i was doing the right thing by telling her this..i know it wasnt the best move..but i also said that i couldnt be bestfriends with someone who i like((this was all in an e-mail))..well a few days later her boyfriend told me online that she showed him the e-mail! i was so mad! i started crying..and i was on the phone with one of my friends and she couldnt believe it either...i cant believe my best friends judgement..we have been in arguments for awhile adn i think that i should draw the line here..what do you think? i really dont wanna be friends with someone who betrayed me like that..i just dont! and she has done things like this before...i really dont want to talk to her again..but our families are very close..i jsut dont know what to do..PLEASE help me!!

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Alright heres the secret... a best friend deosnt do that to you. If she betrays you once she will do it again. its unfortunate but true. Obviously your trust deosnt mean that much to her. As far as your families go just get along with her when you have to otherwise your friendship with her deosnt really concern them. As much as it would hurt i would have to draw the line. Its the only way to make her see how much she hurt you and that best friends dont do that to each other. Its just against the rules. betrayment(is that a word?) is just against the law and your friend should suffer the consequences.

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