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All my friends have had a boyfriend before except me. I really want one, but there is no one that seems right for me. A few guys have asked me out, but i have refused. I am more obsessed with school than guys, but sometimes i wonder if i should spend more time trying to get a boyfriend. I also find that most boys i was attracted to had been my friends. I am not sure why that is. Maybe because i knew them so well?
~Wondering (link)
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Why would you say that you want one, and at the same time refuse? That is a sign that you are both not ready, and that you DON'T need a boyfriend. School is important, and boyfriends are a pain if you force yourself throughout the relasionship. Time shouldn't be used to find a boyfriend either. You still need to live a bit of the single life until you are in college for the time to be ripe. I may not be the best person to take advice from, being 13 and knowing nothing about this stuff, but still, concentrate on your education before you think of boys or anything.
And you are attracted to your guy friends because you know them better than the other specimens of the male side, and since you know all there is to know about them, you might feel more comfortable with them. Also, since those the the guys that you hang out more with, they just come unconsciencely as your first choice.
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