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I'm Rachel... 19 year old college student. I'm majoring in Elementary Education :) I'm a Christian. I LOVE everything Performing Arts- especially Broadway Musicals. I'm lifeguard and Red Cross WSI certified. My favorite de-stressing pastime is knitting. My favorite color is purple. My hair is frizzy and my smile is bright. God Bless!

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One of my best friends just told me that she liked me today. She asked me if i had any feelings about it and i said not yet. The problem is that i don't really know if i like her as more than a friend. I used to like her like about a month ago, but i stopped. This may not make any sense but i want to like her as more than a friend because she is one of the nicest people i know, but i just don't think i see her that way. Is that possible? I don't want to hurt her and tell her that i'm not interested but i don't want to go out with her either. What should i do? (link)
Be honest.

You'll end up hurting her more if you go out with her even though you don't really like her that way.

So tell her how you feel... gently. Yes, it'll probably hurt her to hear it (that's why they call it a crush) and yes, it may make the friendship awkward for a while, but this way really is your best bet for saving your friendship and your best friend's heart.


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