15/F
While growing up I never had the "two parent home" that most have and I am fine with that. My mother has been great, The only problem was the show of love always bothered me. IE: kissing, hugging, holding hands. I never felt comfortable around that stuff because I never saw it and I didn't know how to act when someone did. Its not that I didn't get effection or anything but I didn't see kissing or love toward another man with my mom so when others did it I thought it was wrong. (just my young childish logic) Fast forward to now, I'm 15 and i guess I have a BF. Well, he likes me. We've kissed/madeout and held hands. We have a date saturday and I'm acually not that nervous for the most part. Its just that I don't know how to tell him my feelings, He said "I love you", I said "I love you" but that just doesn't seem to cut if for me. I don't want to seem clingy and I really don't feel comfortable saying i love you since everyone in my family is seriously screwed with love. I like Ryan and I don't want to get hurt by him or hurt him. (I'm afraid I might make a rash decision and dump him)
So exactly how do I get myself to calm down and just enjoy the fact that he likes me?
Just sit for a minute and think about why you love him. Is it his eyes? His hair? The way he talks to you? Just him being him all around? Think about it. Try and match it up. If "I love you" doesn't cut it for you, make sure you say his name. And also if he tells you first, make sure to say 'too' at then end ;3 You won't hurt him by just saying that, maybe just kind of stroke his arm or something to show that you /are/ affectionately attracted to him... and he won't hurt you if he's the right man... To calm yourself if that doesn't help, think of something irresistably cute (like dolphins or kittens o.O ) or repeat one soothing word over and over to yourself, imagining it in your head.... Hope I helped somehow.
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Thanks, You helped alot.
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