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Hey, I love to sing, i take voice lessons and stuff so i know a lot about music, so if you have ne questions about music in singing or instruments, I would be more than happy to answer them. you can IM or email me(IM is below) I am also a poetry and song writing fanatic so you can ask questions about that too. My favourite topics are music and bois (two most difficult exciting things)I am practically happier than i have ever been but i do know what it is like to go through really rough times. I have had a series of extreme problems that i got over and i would like to help anyone get over their problems. I am mostly good with people with any sort of personal problem like an eating disorder or ADD or something like that. You can ask me anything, i'll answer it.
FUTURE: GONNA BE A SINGER (SO REMEMBER ME)
AGE: 14
FAV SONG: IMPOSSIBLE, STAIRWAY TO HEAVEN
FAV BAND: LED ZEPPELIN (CHRISTINA AGUILERA)
HAIR: ALWAYS DIFFERENT LOL
~*LIZZY*~
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hi . ok well here it goes. im 14 and i have been going out with this guy named anthony , he's 16. we have been going out for a month and ive practically fallen in love with him . and he's like in love with me . well he is on probation for burglary and he told me he is not that kind of person anymore . and i said to him that if you mess up then i cant be with you. he understood and said ok. well before he met me he's done some crazy things. one of them is drugs. pot , coke , x , etc. well i told him i dont want him doing ANY of that because i hate drugs and a lot of my friends have gotten hurt and i love him to much to see that happen to him. so last night we were on the phone and we were watching cops and they did sum drug bust. and it was coke . and he's like "yea i did that a couple days ago". i got really pissed and yelled and screamed and started crying. and like he promised me he would never do that and he says he loves me and would do anything for me , but my relationship feels like a big lie. i really need some help or someone normal to talk to because my friends are all messed up to like that. im not that kind of person. he said "i have not found anyone yet like me" and im like "well if yout hought i was that kind of person , then your wrong." he said a lot more but theres to much to type. someone IM me at xIxMissthugxIx@aol.com . someone please help me with this.
I know a lot of people like this, you have to be strict. If you really love him and know you will last after this, put it on a break. Tell him he needs to prove that he will stop doing this for you because you really care about him. You are completely right for being upset, but you do need to set ground rules for the relationship, and if he loves you back, he will make a few changes, but it won't be easy for him, so don't get too worked up if he is only slowly improving. Just like in the movie Grease, people change for love
Lizzy
(Rating: 5) thats if he still loves me . on the phone wen i hung up with him he never even said "i love you" and he always does. and my parents found out bout this to. im not allowed to see him anymore. they want me to break up with him. but its harder to do then what people think . but i guess he needs to learn.