punkrockprincess's advice column

Okay, He's 17, I'm 14, I really really REALLY like him and have known him for about 5-7 years. Family freinds, tight. whatever. ANd he knows I like him and he's said a bunch of times that he like's me as much, we were valentine's, have plans on "hooking up", and then I asked him what our relationship was, and he says "friends with benefits" and I was hurt by it, just because freinds with benfits sounds like he doesn't care about me as much as I do him, even though he's said it. I know age is a thing to get over, but it's not that bad. When he's 18 it'll be differnt. And he and I live in different towns, like 30 minutes away, and see eachother on vacations and what not. Distane and age is not an issue for me at all. But it is for him. And I don't know what to do, because I really like him, and can't figure out what he wants from me. Any adivce? I'll rate and whatnot.

first of all: you're too young to be hooking up.
second of all: i know you dont care, but he's too old for you sweetheart.
and finally: obviouslly he doesnt truly care about you if he has the nerves to call you a friend with benifits. so drop him and leave him.= and find someone new..hopefully around your age...

Love Always,
Maria

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(Rating: 3) Not anything major for hooking up, and I cna't just drop and leave him...but thanks anyways

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