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i'm 14 and i think about sex kind of a lot because this one guy that i really really like wants to have sex w/ me but i don't really want to but then again i look at some of my friends that are 14 and they've lost their virginity already but i don't really want to have sex w/ this one guy but then i do..i'm confused and i don't know if i'm totally out of my mind for thinking about this but i don't want to have sex w/ him but then i do..is it bad to even think about it when i'm 14?
DON'T you should be 110% sure that is what you want to do. one ands, ifs, ors, or buts. it should be with someone who your respect, and who respects you. and just because your friends are doing it/ have done it, doesn't mean that you should. yah i know its hard how, and it is tempting, and you think your wierd because you arnt, but when your older and married, and ready to have sex for the first time with your amazing husband that you are commited to, and you are inlove with eachother, then you will be glad, and so will he, that you didnt.
I know its hard, its was hard for me too. But my boyfriend feels the same way, and we help eachother, and have remained abstinent (no sex or anything sexual besides kissing) and its awesome. because once you do something one time, then the relationship depends on it, and then, i wont lie, you have a great relationship for maybe a month, but its not real, because all it is, is getting stuff from eachother, its not a true commited relationship. and then after that month, the relationship depends on that, and then problems occur, and then the relationship goes down the toilet,{or out the window, which ever you wish to call it}
Anyways, I hope I helped!!!
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