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ok, so my best friend's boyfriend raped her, and i don't know what to do. i know i should tell someone, but she's being dumb, and saying it was her fault, but when you get down to the point SHE WAS RAPED. i don't want her to be mad at me, but i should tell someone right? either that, or i could kill him, but i wouldn't do that. so help????!!!!! please. thanks everyone
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Confused concerned friend (link)
All the advice posted below tells you that, even if she'll be mad at you, tell someone. So DO THAT. But before anything, go to the school counselor, because as this is a student rape, they have most power over it. Beside, the school counselor can listen to you in private, and get the whole problem over quietly, without causing any riffles throughout the whole student body. Trust me, go to the school counselors first, and they'l be ablt to contact the police later if nessary. Becasue if you call the police first, they can't do much, and telling she/his/your parents will only cause panic and rash actions to be done towards the boy that could be dragged up in court as defence towards the rape scene.


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