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Hi, I'm Zoinatrobe and I give advice for most things- school, self harm, fashion, family, ect. I often notice on advicenators that when people give advice, they tend to say what kind of thing you should do to resolve your problem. I can't say I can do it all the time, but I'm going to try to say HOW you resolve a problem. I often give advice to my friends at school.About meeeeeee-I love rock and funk (and funk rock!)- The Red Hot Chilli Peppers, Jimi Hendrix, Nirvana, ect, exercise 8 times a week each time an hour or more (rowing, running, kickboxing) and play guitar. (I have a Fender with a wah wah pedal and an acoustic.) And don't you just love my mouse warrior? ;-p
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I hate my life and I have a lot of problems. My dad left me when I was 3 years old and he lives in Tenneessee with his girlfriend and my half brother. I only get to see them once a year on Christmas. My half sister lives about 45 mins away from me and I only get to see her about every other weekend and on some holidays. My mom lives about 30 mins away from where I live with her boyfriend. They are getting on my nerves because she wants me to move in with them and I don't want to be away from my friends or switch schools again. I live with my grandparents. I have gone through a lot these past 2 or 3 years. I moved away from all my friends in the 3rd grade (Im in 7th grade now), but my best friend changed to the same school as me. Then She moved About 2 and 1/2 hours away in the 4th grade and I didn't even know untill about 2 or 3 days after she left and I hardly ever get to see her. Also school is really stressing me out. A few days ago I cut myself and im thinking about doing it angain. I snap rubberbands on my rist and I get bruses and scars from it. I am thinking about going goth but im probably not. I just have a really bad life. I was wondering if anyone could give my any advice on how I can try to make it better. It's ok if you can't i know it's probably hard to give advice like this. Please and thanks.
~*~Britt~*~
Don't cut yourself again, please- if you hit an vein by accident, it is likly you would die. Next time you get an urge to cut, harm something else, like cut an orange or punch a pillow. Love yourself and think of all the other people that love you- your family, no matter how often you see them, your friends, ditto....no matter how bad you may think your life is there are so many people that care about you- even one who has posted an answer to this question! If you did accidently kill yourself think of how they would feel. It would be best to tell your grandparents or parents next time you see them but if you really can't, speak to your school counsellor or e-mail the Self Harm Alliance on support@selfharmalliance.org. It could save your life. Also, try to have no worries or think of anything negitive for a bit- it can make you really happy when you are acting positive.
Good Luck,
Zoinatrobe
(Rating: 3) Thanks for the advice.
~*~Britt~*~