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Hi, I'm Zoinatrobe and I give advice for most things- school, self harm, fashion, family, ect. I often notice on advicenators that when people give advice, they tend to say what kind of thing you should do to resolve your problem. I can't say I can do it all the time, but I'm going to try to say HOW you resolve a problem. I often give advice to my friends at school.About meeeeeee-I love rock and funk (and funk rock!)- The Red Hot Chilli Peppers, Jimi Hendrix, Nirvana, ect, exercise 8 times a week each time an hour or more (rowing, running, kickboxing) and play guitar. (I have a Fender with a wah wah pedal and an acoustic.) And don't you just love my mouse warrior? ;-p
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My bestfriend is being cruel to me. She likes to show off. She also acts to me like i am her slave. She is a suckup and don't know what to do. We have been friends for so long. I am moving far away soon and she is either really sad and is mean to me or she doesn't care that i am moving. I don't know. She use to be so nice. But know she is trying to be popular and mean. PLEASE HELP!!!
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If your so called friend ignores you when you are speaking to her, then there is no point in being her friend. Friends are ment to be there to talk to when in trouble, e.c.t. Try slowly drifting away from her, going with your other friends. If they are her friends too, you may need to find new friends. I myself hear this alot on advicenators and I know what you are thinking- it isn't that easy. You don't just go hunting for friends. If there is a group you often eat lunch with or something, start talking to them more and sometimes going off with them instead of her. Maybe join a club for your grade. There are lots of ways to meet new people.
If she acts to you as if you are her slave, drifting away from her will "free you". When she tells you to do something now, you can say no- you have other friends so don't just depend on her for friendship.
Like you said in your question, she may be very sad and this showing off is a way for her to attract new friends.
Hope I helped, question me if there is trouble,
Zoinatrobe.
(Rating: 4) Good advice. I just don't think this will happen with her. When we are alone all she does is not pay attention to me. She just looks at stuff. I try to be nice but she ignores me a lot.