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Q: okay, i've written before about this kid brendan who i'm still in love with. (really bad) but it doesn't really look like he's interested at all. so i started going out with the kid steve who i've gone out with a million of times before. i don't like him but my best friend lucas said he's really diggin me and i should go out with him kinda to get him off his back. lol.. i know it's mean but i'd do it for him. and as you all know valentine's day is coming up and i don't know if i should break up with him now and get it done with or if i should wait a lil while after valentine's day. or would that look like i was using him. oh ya and steve is planning something really cute for valentine's day along with a couple of my girls boyfriends for all of us. so i don't know if that would be mean to dump them eaither. oh ya and im 16! (please help) xOox elise*

don't do that though. i mean it may look like you're doing the right thing and boosting his confidence but it's just never right to play someone like that. break up with him now before it gets too serious or valentines day is just that close ahead. he'll eventually get over you. i mean how would you like it if Brendan just kept going out with you over and over again. you'd feel used up and everytime he's like ok lets go out.. you'd get all happy and your hopes up and then it would just lead to a breakup right? so do steve a favor and cut him loose. and just do what you always do.. like brendan lol.

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