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Hey, Im 13, and my boyfriend and I have been going out for about a couple months. And he asked me if he could finger me. I want him to, but will it hurt? I hurd that it does, but im not really sure. And then he asked me later in the future (a month or so from now) if we could have sex. I want to but im scared it will hurt to much or i'll get pregnent. XoXO **AmberO**
I'm just giving you my opinion, so you can either take it or leave it. If he fingers you than it might hurt, depending on how "loose" you are. I think you should NOT have sex. You're 13! And even if you weren't 13, you've still only been with your boyfriend for a few months! I'm 13 also and I think if I had sex at my age I would regret it for the rest of my life. You will probably regret it too. IF you do it, it will probably hurt since it will be your first time. There's a chance you could get pregnant, but if he wears a condom, there's a slim chance. The only way you could get pregnant when he wears a condom is if the condom breaks. And DONT tell him to wear 2+ condoms because then there is a higher chance of the condom breaking. PLUS: What happens if you get pregnant? Then what are you going to do? What if your boyfriend breaks up with you? Then you'll be a single thirteen or fourteen year old mother. You know what will happen to your reputation if people find out? What's going to happen with all your friends? You have so many questions to ask yourself about this. If I had a say in this, I would tell you it wouldn't be a good idea to do this. But I really don't have a say. It's all your decision. Sometimes decisions in life are going to be hard to make, but you're going to have to make them eventually. Make a good choice and don't get yourself hurt out in the real world ♥
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I just wanted to say, thankyou, and im going to listen to your opition. And I should ask myself questions and think of the answers before doing anything. You're very good at giving advice. Thankyou so much!!
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