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Hey, I'm Fire Hazzard, and I'm here to help. Lay it on me and I'll tell ya what I think.
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So I really like this guy and I want to talk to him about us... a lotta people who hang out with us think he likes me too... but I just don't know. I want to talk to him about it but I don't know how to bring it up without sounding really forward. I also don't want to mess up our friendship if he ends up not liking me. I don't want things to get weird when we hang out if I tell him I like him and then he doesn't like me back... so I guess I just want ideas on how to bring it up and talk about it and what I can do maybe to flirt more with him and things. I already flirt a lot with him... but more ideas might help.
-Karen (link)
Don't be afraid to sound forward. Be asertive, get what you want. I'd start by bringing up the time that you kissed.

You: "I know we haven't talked about it much, but do you remember the time you kissed me?" (or 'I kissed you' or however it would be most accurate to word it)

Him (sheepishly and a little embarassed): "yeah...."

You: "Well, I just wanted to say thank you - I really liked it. I was wondering if maybe we could do that again sometime."

You think that sounds cheesy, but I gaurentee that if you can pull it off and sound serious (no cracking up or blushing) he will be yours within the week... probably within a few moments.


Rating: 5
Thanks a lot :) That conversation example is helping me a lot and giving me ideas about how to do it.




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