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Okay me and my x b/f went out for like 3 months.. and even thou that doesn't seem like that long it really was.. we really had something.. but i feel like i screwed it all up bc towards tha end i wasnt really acting like his gf and stuff.. but now its been like 2 months and i still like him sooo much.. and i wanna know how he feels but i dont wanna ruin our friendship that we have by mentioning something so what do i do?? and i know that if we went out again then i would change everything.. but plz HELP! (link)
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Hi Sweetie,
I'm sorry to say this but if you really want this, you will have to take the risk. Talk to openly... tell him something like "so how have you been ever since... two months ago?" Slowly start bringing up the issue of how you feel and telling him how much you miss him and point out HOW you have changed, WHY you changed, and what he means to you and why you want a second chance. If he hesitates in answering tell him to consider it and take his time-you'll wait. And to do you the favor that if he feels he cannot give you a second opportunity to pretend you never even asked... for the sake of your friendship. OH! Remember, to gain something (even if you had it before and it slipped away from you) you have to earn it or show why you deserve it. Show him someway... show him you are a better person now.
My good wishes sent to you. Take care! ~Blessed Be...
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Hey there.. thanks for all your advice! it really helped me and showed me what i needed to do and exactly how to do it. I'll get back to ya on how it goes. xo
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