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Hey I'm Laura. I love giving advice and helping people out. If you ever have a question, drop one in my inbox! I'm always on, so your question will be answered very quickly. =)advice
a friend from school died about 3 weeks ago from cancer. now one of my close friends has cancer too. its making me so incredibly frustrated and upset and angry and so worried about my friend all at the same time. i need someone spiritual to please give me a new outlook on all of this, because right now i can't stop praying and questioning why the hell things like this happen.
I know how you feel. My dad died of a brain anerism when I was only three. It's made me think of how much I do have considering what I've lost. Life isn't fair, I know. You can't always change what life gives you, but you can change how you react to it. I read this book called Always and Forever by Lurlene McDaniel. It's about a girl who gets cancer, and how it affects everyone around her. It's very inspiring and I think you should read it if you ever happen to find it. The best thing to do is to be there for your friend and her family, and keep praying. Your friend who passed away is now out of pain, and I'm sure they don't want you to be sad. Everything happens for a reason. I think the reason for this is that God wants you to cherish the things you do have. He wants to be close to you. I know it's upsetting, but one day you will accept what's going on. I think that one day it will make sense. It's hard right now, but time mends wounds hun. If you ever need someone to talk to, you know where to go. =)
♥ lAuRa
(Rating: 5) some points you made were exactly what i needed to hear.