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im 14 going on 15/f. ive never had a b/f but ive had this one crush for 2 yrs. now! Were good friends now and lately all of my friends have had b/f. i kinda feel left out, but being single is fun 2! i kno this sounds wrong...to me it does 2, but lately all ive wanted 2 do is grab my crush and just kiss him! i think i have a problem...what should i do! please help!~ (link)
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Hi Sweetie,
Well I guess it can be considered a problem. but a problem a lot of us go through in occassion. I think what has happened is your mind (you're in the stater of infatuation) has gotten too strong about this boy. It will be hard to get over him or to get into other guys. You're going to have to either comfront him somehow or get some space and time apart from him so you canget a hold of yourself and later on start having curshes on other guys.
It's cool that you guys are friends, it really is, but if you stay in the relationship ou are in it can be unhealthy since it seems like you're "tied down" to him emotionally. (L.O.L. Don't I sound like a therapist. Hehe) What I am trying to say is that since you have feelings for him that you cannot control your platonic relationship will not work. What will happen is that you will never notice other guys and they will just pass you by and one day he will get a girlfriend and it will hurt you really bad. You cannot be friends until you learn to be indipendet from him.
Even if you copmfront him about your feelings you need some time apart first. You have to be prepared he'll say no OR yes. Even if he says yes you cannot depend on him so much... it's hard to explain. Anyway, whatever you decide what I would recommend or do in your place is take some time to myself. I would be a bit upset at first, but I would realize its for the best.
You know what the funny part is about having curshes and having boyfriends... when you stop wanting a boyfriend or stop having a crush-when you stop looking, they find you. When I deceided to have no crush... a week or so later I got a boyfriend.
Anyway, sorry this is too long. My best wishes!!! Take good care. Happy holidays. ~Blessed Be...
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hey! long is GREAT! Thanxs so much!
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