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my friend alyssa was seeing this guy ryan but they broke up bc she cheated on him. shes in love with this new guy tai they went out brok eup but shes still hooked on him. alyssa doesnt liek ryan any more and says she doesnt care if her friends like him but i feel likeid be betraying her if i did.. me and ryan have been talkin for a few weeks now. just online and on the phone and were making plans to hang out & stuff.. hes such a great guy and has the best personality. do you think its wrong that ryan & i are hanging out and talking??? me and alyssa have been friends for 4 years but she says its ok..i think shes too wrapped up with tai right now but.. i dont want to ruin our friendship at all... what do you advise..??

-kristi

Well just to make sure, ask Alyssa one more time if it's really ok if you do that. If she still gives you a yes, go ahead. She's busy with Tai right now so it looks like she's not worried about Ryan right now. Eveything should be fine, unless Alyssa gets upset when you hang out with Ryan. Then that would be the time to talk it over with her and Ryan. You would need to settle everything so everyone is happy with what's going on. It sounds like Alyssa doesn't mind though, so give Ryan a chance. Your being a good friend for not trying to hurt her, and I think that's really nice of you. =)

♥ lAuRa

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(Rating: 5) thanx so much ill liked ur advice the best!!
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