it's good that you can acknowledge that this is a becoming a problem. you're above like half of the people that do cut right now lol.. but for starters you've got to face your issues. guys are idiots and they will screw you over (omg trust me.) school and parents are realllllly stressful and you have to find ways around it to use to cope with. just remember that life goes on and every problem you have will just go away i promise. now.. try expressing your anger/hurt/feelings in general in another way.. like writing or listening to music (that's what i do) or confide in a reallly good friend you knwo you can trust about this.. friends may not seem like it.. but sometimes they can really help you out in a problem. if those options don't work try confronting your problem itself.. like talk to your parents about wat's bothering you about them and see if you can fix anything to make your school life less hectic.. i know that sometimes you can't really talk to your parents (my parents are like that) so you can try crisis hotlines or other methods. lastly if those still don't work you can always IM me and just talk to me (it might be easier since i'm just a stranger so i can't really judge you or know you that well..) but you can also try a counselor.. although the probelm with that is that if they believe you are posing a threat to yourself then they'll have to inform your guardians that may make things worse. just remember that you're not alone and you really are a good person no doubt about that. life always has huge bumps in the road. you just have to find ways of getting around them...
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Its was long but helpful.. lol thx

this site has been down for a while but i'm starting it up again. i've been really busy with school work and other activities but now you can ask me questions again.


anyways about myself, i've gone through alot in my life and it's all made me stronger so i can relate to nearly any situation. i really love people. when i get older i do plan on doing something in this sort of field, maybe psychiatry. i'm currently a junior in highschool and i devote all of my time to either my friends, theatre, or school. yeah i'm sort of a nerd. if i can't get on here to reply to your questions and its urgent then you can always feel free to IM me on AIM and i'll try to help you on there. i'm basically always on.

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