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Hey I'm Laura. I love giving advice and helping people out. If you ever have a question, drop one in my inbox! I'm always on, so your question will be answered very quickly. =)


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my boyfriend is always pressuring me to have sex. i'm not a virgin, which i told him, but i dont think i am ready to have sex with him. i mean we have been going out for 4 months, but i really dont think i am ready for that kind of commitment. the last and first guy i had sex with was my first love we had known each other since we were 3. me and him are still friends and my boyfriend always gets jealous of me talkin to him. he also cussed me out various times in person and on the phone. i really dont know what to do about this and i KNOW i cant ask my mom cuz she would go and cuss him out. 17/f/ga

if he gets mad at you because you wont have sex with him, that's most likely all he wants you for. im sorry, but if he really did like you he wouldn't pressure you into it. talk to him about this jealousy issue. let him know that you only had sex with your previous boyfriend was because you were ready. clue him in that that doesn't mean your ready to do it again. if he can't respect your decisions, let him go. it's not fair to you to be pressured into doing what you don't want to.
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(Rating: 5) thatnk you sooo much! you really dont know how much ur answer means to me! thank you again. and if u ever need ne advice i am here...cept when it comes to realtionships, all mine have been bad lately.
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