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My husband and I were talking the other day and he said that if he died he would not want a funeral. I was shocked. Of course he should have a funeral, it's a great way for family and friends to say goodbye. I feel it is more for the family of the deceased anyway. He disagrees, and is shocked that I would not respect his wishes. Who is right here? And if he did die, what are we as a family suppose to do? I would like the love and support of my faamily. (link)
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Hi Sweetie,
It's kind of a funny question. Not to be disrispectful or offensive but it's a very interesting question that happens to be a bit funny. But it's a good question that actually hasn't been asked on the site before. At least not that I know of.
Well first of let me just say neither one of you is right and neither one is wrong. An opinion CAN'T be wrong or right. Well it is right for the person who thought of it but for others it may seem wrong. I myself would rather donate my organs than have a funeral, l.o.l. I don't really think about it but... I probably would. Or I used to think that way... now that I remembered about it that I'm telling you I find it a little creepy, l.o.l. But I think its rewarding because I'd be helping others.
Anyway, now if your husband DOES die soon (hopefully he won't for a loooong time, thought) you can still have a ceremony or... a reunion and celebrate his life as if it were a funeral.
My best wishes! ~Blessed Be...
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