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Q: Me and my b/f are pretty close! I am just worried because he is in a grade older than me and im scared that sumthing might happend becasue hes going to a different school next year! I dont know if i should stay with him or break up with him! If i stay with him i might get hurt later because he might find other girls but if i break up with him now im going to hurt now because i love him and i dont no what ill do when i see him everyday in the halls and maybe get a new g/f!? Everyone is telling me to stay with him but theres just sumthing i dont no im just confused! All my friends are saying stay because then ill go to all the dances with him and stuff! ((*If this helps my BFF is in his grade and im always with her*)) HELPP!
it'll be hard but you two can manage to keep a relationship even through long distance issues like school. if you really trust him and know he's a loyal person then try dont break up with him because yeah it will just hurt if you break up with him now. and one thing i've learned is that after you break up with someone when you're not really over them then the feelings will linger strongly.. but if you two break up then your heart can actually heal a little easier.. b/c when you break up with the feelings still strongly there then your head and heart are always just going to think about how things could have been or could be.

but anyways.. the short story is stay with him if you think that you can trust him enough next year.. im just saying that it'll be really hard though so get ready for rough bumps.

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this site has been down for a while but i'm starting it up again. i've been really busy with school work and other activities but now you can ask me questions again.


anyways about myself, i've gone through alot in my life and it's all made me stronger so i can relate to nearly any situation. i really love people. when i get older i do plan on doing something in this sort of field, maybe psychiatry. i'm currently a junior in highschool and i devote all of my time to either my friends, theatre, or school. yeah i'm sort of a nerd. if i can't get on here to reply to your questions and its urgent then you can always feel free to IM me on AIM and i'll try to help you on there. i'm basically always on.

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