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Sorry this is long, but i rate high! :)
I have a friend...lets call her Jill. Well jill is really cool to hang out with...when she isnt around guys or we arent on the subject of guys. She always uses guys and she flirts with them, and leads them on all the time and then she ends up crushing them. She always steals the gusy her friends like (including the guys i like...) and we are all sick of it. I really want to tell her off because i have talked to her about it before but just talking to her wont get through to her. I want her to really realize what a slutty jerk she has turned into. because she used to be really cool. Please help! (link)
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Hi Sweetie,
God that sucks! I see the problem. She may have gotten confused or mixed up somewhere in her life so you are going to have to be straight forward. Maybe it would help if you DIDN'T use the words "slut" or "bitch" (...I threw that in because that's how she's acting... but don't say that thought). Let her know what she's doing. For example after she stops talking to some guy and you and her are hanging tou alone say something like, "Jill... don't you think you're with too many guys?" or something. Then bring up you and your friends' stolen curhses. "That wasn't cool Jill. I liked that guy. Friends don't steal friends' crushes." Once you're in the subject tell her how she's changed and how uncool it is. Ask her if anything is wrong and make sure she realized you'reinterested in her well-being and you'll always be there for her. And that she realizes how destructive her behavior is and how it affects hersef as well (for example her ruined reputation and social life).
My best wishes to both of you! Hope I helped. ~Blessed Be...
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