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my friend is doin some stupid stuff, and i want him to stop. he's always takin crazy chances, like jumpin off roofs into pools and stuff. and then the other day he was burnin himself with a lighter. and on more than one occasion he talks about he wishes he had a knife with him so he could slice his wrists. when i ask him why he does this stuff he answers "no one cares about me, so why should i stop?" how do i tell him that everytime he does something, it kills a part of me. i dont wanna seem mushy or anything, but i cant stand to see him doin this crap. please help me im freakin out, im so afraid for him.
ps-and dont tell me to get an adult to talk to him, cuz if i tell on him, he'd neva speak to me again.

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xXxashliexXx

Just next time the subject comes up..tell him that whenever he does stupid things like that, it hurts you. I've been through that before, and I just straight up told them how I felt..& I didn't get mushy about it. Tell him he's one of your friends and YOU care about him. Even though people say "no one cares about me" it's not true, there's always someone who does care. If you need anything anything else, drop me one in my inbox! Hope I helped! :]
-Amber

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(Rating: 5) thank you hunii
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