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ok ..im 14/f and one of my best friends is 14/m..he doesnt go to my school...although lives in the district and i seem him here and there...hes been askin me how to ask a girl out..and i kept telling him to be himself..he just wont listen to me on that part advice...and he kepts telling me to put myself in that position..and i said "no" then he said "well its not hard 4 u ur a girl" and i said "its hard 4 us as well..bc we have to turn down guys we dont like"..and i dk how to tell just to be himself..bc he wont listen to that...and he a few days ago he asked me "how do i ask a girl out and not get turned down??"..and im like idk its not something predictable...and he goes to a private school..and i go to public school..so i have no clue who this girl is..if i did ..i would have asked her if she liked him..but i dk ....so im pointless at this point...im suppose to go to the movies see him later today w/ one of our best friends..who goes to my school..who used lived down the street from him...so can u help me? -thx in advance *i rate*
Well, you were giving him the right advice..to be himself. That's the best way. Have him drop a few hints to her that he likes her& then being a girl, she should get the idea. But he was very wrong about it being easier for us girls to ask a guy out& all..it's just as hard, if not harder. He should really just ask her how she feels about him. He asked you "how do I ask out a girl& not get turned down?" That's not the type of question he can just go& ask you b/c you're right..it's NOT something you can predict. He just needs to understand& realize that there's always going to be the chance of him getting turned down. It's life, shit happens. Hope I helped!
(Rating: 5) haha yess..lol *scoffs* MEN!! lol