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Q: okay, i have this REALLY good guy friend named "jon"..hes in my grade we have 3 classes together, hes totalllly gorgeous..he just got outta a 9 month relationship about a month agO..he was inlove with that girl and naturally he prolly isnt over her yet and still is inlove with her..she lives like 45 mins away from where we live though..anywayz so me and jon ALWAYS flirt with eachother, act like brother and sister, punch eachother, etc, ya know like flirty stuff like that..we ALWAYS talk bout our problems with eachother, etc..i never ever thought that he would eveer like me cause we are so close friends but then his cousins gf told me that she asked him if he liked me and he said, "yeah i do actually..but im not gunna do anything about it cause i dont want our friendship to get ruined"..i thought that was so sweet of him to say...im kinda stuck cause i like him too..should i just continue on being really good friends? or should i bring out that i like him?
bring out that you like him that you two should go out and that the risk of ruining the friendship is a risk he'll just have to take. tell him it's great that he's worried about the freidnshp like that but remind him that you two are good together and thta plenty of other relationships have survived the aftermath and stil remained friends (like me.. i am freinds with every single former boyfriend i've ever had). ask him why you two should ignore something that could be so great just because of a risk you know he knows you two can surive (haha sorry if i threw you off on that last tongue twister there)

thanks SO Much

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anyways about myself, i've gone through alot in my life and it's all made me stronger so i can relate to nearly any situation. i really love people. when i get older i do plan on doing something in this sort of field, maybe psychiatry. i'm currently a junior in highschool and i devote all of my time to either my friends, theatre, or school. yeah i'm sort of a nerd. if i can't get on here to reply to your questions and its urgent then you can always feel free to IM me on AIM and i'll try to help you on there. i'm basically always on.

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