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Q: Well today is me and my girl one month anniversary. She lives in Oregon and I live in Texas, I will tell you that I do care for this girl and I can only see her as being with me in the future, like as my future wife and everything

but there someone else I like right now and shes here ..and more near. Ive went on a date with this girl before I got together with my baby. But this girl kinda toyed with my emotion , making me think she didnt like me. Well now we are closer and she really likes me and tells me that only i can make her happy and that I was the only one who ever made her feeling 'so many emotions' at once in her lifetime thats why she denied when I asked her out cause she was scared.

So I dont know what to do. Should I let my baby girl go? because I dont want to hurt her if anything happens between me and this girl but then I dont want to because Im afraid ill make the biggest mistake of my life.

you've got a great thing going right now so don't wreck it. if you're happy with your current girl then stay with her because after you lose her you may realize she was a big part of your life and more important than this girl

also.. even though you and this other girl have gotten closer.. it still doesnt change that she toyed with your emotions once.. what's to say she's not doing it again? just keep your gaurd up, you never know what could happen if you don't.

but really.. just be with the one you are happy with. if the distance is worth it with your current girl, then stick around with her and wait till something actually wrong happens before you move on to this other girl.

but if things are just too hard for you and her.. then re-analyze your relationship with her and think about this new.. (err old) girl (the one that toyed with your emotions).

hope i helped.. =|

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