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my best friend flirts with my boyfriend all the time and I think hes flirting back..She has a boyfrined tho..she flirts with everyone but its really bothering me..I dont wanna be like "I dont wanna fight but I've notice your flirting with my boyfriend" becuase shes like one of my best friends..what should I do? I dont wanna talk to her bout it but I want it to stop...what do I do..? =(
I'll rate high..
Well, first of all-You are not going to get ANYWHERE, if you don't talk to her. You should talk to her, but don't automatically say "YOU'VE BEEN FLIRTING WITH MY BOYFRIEND!". That won't help at all. Take your time, and be patient. Ask her questions like: Do you like my boyfriend? Are you having problems with your boyfriend? or something like that. JUST DONT make it like an interview with 1000 questions. Then tell her you've been noticing her kind of flirting with your boyfriend. If she doesn't get really mad, ask her why she has been doing it. If she says 'no', but you think she's lying. Don't say "I think you are lying". Say something like "Okay, if you say you aren't then I trust you. You are my friend, and I hope you are telling me the truth." If she gets mad, tell her that you are sorry for accusing her and you just wanted to know what was really happening. You could probably go to your boyfriend to and ask him. TRUST him. TRUSt her also. They are close to you, and trust that they are being honest. Good Luck, and I hope I helped some. If you need anything else, drop one in my inbox!
-casey
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wow your really good!!
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