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I MAJORLY NEED HELP! Ok heres the story: Some of my friends (4) are going to Crazy Donkey (a dance club) 2nite and they invited me to go!! The one problem is I don't know how to ask my mom if i could go b/c it would be my first time going to a club. When I asked her previous times she was unsure and said she would think about it but those times I never made a plan to go but now I did. So what should I say to her? I never did anything to make my parents not trust me or anything like that i mean jeez im a high honor student lol I just don't know how to approach her with this info... She gets home from work later 2nite but I also wanna know is it okay to call her at work?

Don't call her at work. The worst thing is when you disrupt a parent at work. And besides you have no idea if its a crummy day at the office. Wait until she gets home. And i suggest choosing the right moment. Maybe while shes cooking dinner you could help and then bring it up and have a mother-daughter talk. Don't get snotty about it if she says no. That will just show immaturaity. But instead hear her reasons why and then try to explain your reasons more thoroughly. Also tell her you will not be alone and your going with 4 other girls. That none of you will be under the influence. you are a honors student. And that you have never given her any reasons not to trust you. If she still says no then respect it and try again on a different night when your a little older and after you've talked to her about it a little more and gave her time to think. Also, maybe next time you should ask her to go to a clb a few days in advance so she has time to think about it and shes not pressured to make a choice and then wonder if she made the wrong descion when she only had 3 hours to think about it.


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