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Member Since: April 13, 2011
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Last Update: May 2, 2011
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thanks!


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thank you and im not sure if he is gifted


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thankx ,ur right we could think that


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Thank you! I was really irritated that he spoke to him anyway, but it gave me an introduction. I'm planning on just talking to him myself from now on, instead of people thinking they can do it for me haha. Thank you for the convo ideas too, I blank out when I'm nervous!


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Hi there, I kind of look in my e-mail about once a week, sometimes less often. I am sure it is in there, and I like talking with you, but I have to keep my sanity in check too. I liked e-mailing back and forth like that, but I can't do that all the time. I will have a look in the next day or so and get back to you there. The 9 year old is a legit question. Most of the ones you are talking about are asked by unregistered users. We get several hundred, and what you are talking about are actually the best of them. How sad is that? I will answer the one you had the weird feeling about then. Thought it might be better coming from a woman, but maybe not. Hope the playset is a ton of fun for the kids. :-)


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thank you and ill let you know how it turns out :) ima lil nervous!


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Thanks. :) I've been taking a multivitamin and it has helped a little, along with getting more sleep, but they're still pretty bad so I'll look into your advice.


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Thanks! I honestly would of never thought of that!!I'll let you know if I have anymore problems:)


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Hey, thanks. :) I know it was such a strange question but I just couldn't understand why someone would be so quick to change attitudes. Thanks for clearing it up. :) And, ironically enough, I DO volunteer with stuff like that, so you're right on the mark. Thanks a bunch. :)


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i love this!


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Thank you! If I could rate this a 1,000 I totally would! (:


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Thank you so much. I just don't know how to take him out of my life since I'm around his family so much. I'll always see him and that won't make the feelings go away. I think I'll just talk to him..when we start talking and if he keeps it up, it'll only be friends. (I felt like I needed to say it to somebody to make sure I'll do it lol)


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Thanks! Sadly I couldn't leave well enough alone. He left his (quite nice) umbrella in my car. Given the current rainy weather I mailed it to him and just moments ago left him a vm, via slydial, letting him know it was en route. I'm certainly interested in him but couldn't make sense of what seemed to be the disconnect between his words ("when can I see you again?" " we should go to a baseball game together" etc and the absence of any body language that indicated interest- until the kiss which may or may not have, if executed, been platonic. In my next day follow up call I was quite clear that I would be interested in another date so I think there is some info here that indicates he is not interested and I MUST stop trying to change that reality by contacting him any further... right? I wish he would call. It would be a firm yes on my end. I tend to think that we are adults and should be able to seek what we want, but apparently there are rules..... when to phone, who should phone, the "chase" etc. So complicated.


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wow! thank you so so much for all of your help. I'm really determined to change my way of life. You really helped me realize that maybe if I do pray more and read the bible, things will change for me. I'm going to give it a try. Thank you so much again. Thank you for believing in me :)


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I know I have great plans waiting for me. Those are some amazing stories




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