I'm a 38 year old psychologist living in Nashville, Tennessee. Until shortly over a year ago, I hosted a radio/tv talk show. At the moment, I'm amid plans to start a new one called, " One Man's Opinion". It's a radio show FOR women, ABOUT men, BY a man.
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E-mail: cmclinphd@hotmail.com Gender: Male Location: Nashville, Tennessee Occupation: Psychologist Age: 38 Member Since: November 30, 2003 Answers: 349 Last Update: September 15, 2009 Visitors: 28352
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You are awesome. I already knew that I couldn't really have a relationship when she under 18, but you have an awesome idea for the cuts. I never thought of opening up to her about my problems and see if she would reciprocate. If I ever have a chance to have a long talk with her, I'll definitely do that. I worked with her last year on a job, so it's possible she was 16 then and is now 17. I'll find out the next time I talk to her so I can put this behind me.
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ur the best ever!! ur awesome at giving adivice!! besssssstest one here!
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Thank you for your advice I really believe you hit the nail on the head YOu are correct! I have been lonely, to be honest. My child's father is incarcerated So it has been tough being a single Mom. I tend to get into these "toxic" He does like to put me down. He even said that his ex is prettier than I am? I was furious, because i feel that he tries to keep me in my place? He will say these mean things and then be overly jealous, asking me questions such as, "how many guys flirted with you today?" He is so jealous somedays. I can't believe. Honestly I can't even look around without him thinking that I am looking at other men?
But then he puts me down and turns me off.
He says things to make me feel small and maybe he thinks that i will begin to think less of myself? He must think that I will stay with him because I think less of myself? Just so you know, I am grateful for your advice, and I plan to break it off with him today.
I had another question I am also interested in a career in Broadcasting. I don't want to give up on my dream. I am already in my early 30's. Can you give me some advice? I live on the Shore line in Connecticut State. I am offered some opportunities to break into the biz. But what should I do? DId you like working for a radio station? And what was it like? What are some of the things you needed to know? Anything you can tell me would be greatly appreciated.
God Bless.
Uncanny
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Thanks, I'll be emailing you shortly!
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It turns out they are dating now (She has a nasty habbit of not keeping me up to date, probably trying to protect my feelings but instead making me feel worse by forcing me to find out for myself). I figured they would eventually, but I guess you never can prepair yourself for that day can you? She already told him off,and is feeling bad about it. I told her not to. She is a completely closed book, even if I ask her what she wants, she wouldn't tell me. i think I'll just back out of this while I still have some thread of dignity, and let her settle her lovers' spouts alone. I'll just let her call me if she wants to do something, maybe not seeing her will help me get over her.
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Thank you very much for taking time out to answer my question.
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Thanks. I really appreciate your words. I've always known a lot of people go through similar situations, and it's good to finally here from someone who has. I'll let you know as things slowly change.
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Thank you. Your response was awesome, awakening and very enlightening. Instead of "OneMan" you should be called "TheMan"!
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thankyou for you advice, i think some bits you may be right, but i will let him take the next step. once again thanks.
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You've helped me so much... When I need help, I'm going to you
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Very much appreciated advice, thank you :o)
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Thank you so much for your advice, it helped me a lot. I talked to my mum and we're ok for now; I hadn't looked at it in some of the ways you described. Thanks a lot x
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thanx your advice has helped and I want tp be a pastry chef. some how i left that out:} thanx again!
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Thanks for the nice complimentary advice. You are an excellent advisor.
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I finally got to rate all this! Thanks so much!
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although he doesn't like me thanx for your advice. it does feel good that I told him. so thanx for ya advice
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