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Hi, Im Sarah and Im 24 and Im married to a wonderful man! Together we have 3 kids together the first one was an "accident" as I was still in high school when I was 17. But she is now 7 and her name is Ashley Marie. Then I have a little boy who is 11 months and his name is Corey Logan. Then I am expecting the third in about a month!!! She is suppost to be a girl so her name will be Kelsey Anne. I graduated college from The University of Tennasee. I am a gymnastics coach and own 3 gyms. Then as a side job I train horses for all events. I got married on May 21, 2007!!! If you ever need help I can answer most any question... I am a been there done that type of person! I've learned from alot of mistakes too.
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does anyone know how to groom a wire haired jack russel, or atleast give her a decent hair cut? (link)
The website below is really good in the how to's to do it. It is an excellent website to learn from!


is it normal for a puppy, to eat its own wastes,(poop)? (link)
It is normal, but not healthy. It is not healthy for dogs to eat ANY kind of animal poo. I am a vet and I get people saying things about this all the time and then they have dogs that are getting very sick from it. You might consider cleaning it up after every time they go to the bathroom also you might consider when they go outside to put them on a leash. Also here is a good website on why and hows to's. http://www.paw-rescue.org/PAW/PETTIPS/DogTip_PoopEating.php


I love my cat a lot. I wouldn't give her up for the world.. she's everything to me, but she sheds so much that there are hairs everywhere!!! On my bed, my clothes; any furniture at all, it's there. I do comb her several times a day but it does not help at all. Also, she hates baths! Last time I tried bathing her she scratched me all over and made a mess. I know most cats hate water but my point out of that was I don't know how to control her shedding! I also know it's summer soon, so shedding will happen no matter what But how can I control a lot of it?? It's just so much, it takes washing my furniture every day just to make my stuff look decent.

Please help!! Thanks (link)
Well I would agree with the person below me you need to get lint brushes and go over furniture, clothes every morning, bedding and all. Also have you tried dry baths? And also you might want to consider getting her de-clawed. Also I know they sell brushes that have a suction to them and pull out loose hair. They are really worth the extra price in the end! Here in Ohio they cost about 20.00. You will have to get them on the dog section also they have normal cobs that are good to stop shedding but again they will be in dog brushes I will attatch a web site that has a list of combs that help to stop shedding! http://www.epetpals.com/cgi-bin/commerce.exe?search=action&keywords="shedding_tools"


okay so i just got 2 new pitts but i dont know what to name them...one is a boy and he is tan with hazel eyes, then the other one is a girl she has greenish blue eyes and she is tan-brown with white down her chest and the middle of her face.

please give me some good names for these new pupps...i would like the names to be spanish names or tough for the boy...and for the girl tough,spanish,or pretty names

dont judge me...i know the way some of u people are!

please and thanks
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heres a list of some names as for spanish names I dont really know much spanish but one of my friends dogs names is cuervo. But here is my favorite names...Anauel - Angel of Prosperity.


Abdiel - Angel of Faith
Alize - one who charms
Camael - Angel of Joy
Duscha - divine spirit
Elijah - Angel of Innocence
Kamalli - spirit guide, protector
Machidiel / MalchedielMeaning - Angel of Courage
Mihael - Angel of Loyalty
Nisroc - Angel of Freedom
Naolin - Aztec God of the sun
Nitesh - Heartbeat of the Earth
Nakia/Niesha - pure
Orrin - River
Orion - son of fire/light
Primo - First Born
Renate - Reborn
Talli - Hero
Truman - Faithful Man
Trahern - strong as iron


Sometime last week me and my bf were talking about having sex and he didnt think i was being serious about it..i told him that i would have sex with him but he thought i was joking and i really would and i want to..he says he wants to but i dont know if hes just saying that or what. i dont know how to make him see that i am serious. how do i do it? im really shy about these things too. (link)
Well if you are sure that you are ready for the big step then make him know it sit down with him and be like yes I really want to and Im being dead serious! Then there is no specific way it just comes naturel but relax! And dont be suprised if the first few times you bleed or also it hurts that perfectly normal and remember to be safe!!


well my boyfriend is really sweet the best boyfriend i have ever had.=D i am really happy with him. Im in love with him. But suddenly he seems kinda like wanting to have sex with me like when he comes over he takes off his shirt n my. like were about to do it but im not sure if i want to yet. Is not that i dont love him i do a WHOLE LOT. What should i do. just stop him all the time. should i just do it. i kinda want to sometimes but im scarde im still a virgen. pleasee help. (link)
No you shouldnt do it! Respect your body you will know when it is right! If you have a religion of wating untill your married youd better wait because one way or another someone will find out! But go with your instinct and I think right now your instinct is telling you know way!!! Tell him that your not ready he will respect you for that!


Okay, I'm a 14 year old female.
I've been masturbating since the summer.
See, on here, I've asked many questions and I always recieve the same answer, "Nothing is wrong with you, it's healthy." And sure, you say my friends are doing it but want to keep it personal, okay. Well I DON'T want to masturbate. The thing is, I don't know how to stop without getting urges or having the temptation to do it again, because I've tried fighting that and it's not helping. Please, help me. I don't want to be the monster I am anymore. (link)
It is healthy and all but the easiest way to stop is to slowly stop it it isnt anything you want to just all the sudden cut off! Start by doing it once a week then every other week once a month and so on till you stop! Good Luck!


How do you know if your fallopian tubes or blocked? What can I do to get pregnant quicker I have been trying for 5 years now. Thanks (link)
Go to the doctor. They have so many wyas of finding a way to get you pregnant! Or if you want there is always adoption! But the best thing is going to the doctor!


Is masturbating healthy? like do you get any diseases from it if you wash your hands a lot.

Any Pros and Cons? (link)
It is perfectly normal hun, Most people do it. It can be relaxing and stress releaving. The only thing is unless it is against your religion and if it is out of hand!


Ok i feel stupid asking this....but what exactly is oral sex? (link)
Oral is like your mouth so it is like when girls give guys bj's and like when guys lick and such on a girl. Serch it if you want to know alot about it!


ok so i first bled when i was first fingered back in november. and then i bled when i had sex in february. and i've just been fingered again last week and again today and i'm bleeding again.
is this possible to happen or is there something not right?

thankss (link)
Yes, I would agree with the person below me... If it is happening every time then you need to go to the doctor!!! BUt it also could be you cherry.


18/female
well like two weeks ago i felt like little bumps on my leg like right below where my underwear end.

&& they are all gone cept one.
its kind of big && well annoying.
i don`t know what caused it.
it don`t itch // hurt
its just there.

any ideas what to do or where it may of came from (link)
Try useing different panites like the person below me said but also it could have been from you wearing a skirt and your legs rubbing together all day too, or it could be from sweating. I know that sounds gross but you can get sweat burn if it is hot out and you were working hard and sweating and such. I get it from wearing skirts and my legs rubbing together. I know it is uncomfertable but don't worry too much and put some loation that is uncented on them. Hope this helps!


This is extremely embarassing for me to ask.

I am an 18 year old girl from Egypt, but I moved to the USA when I was seven. My parents got me circumcised when I was six. I am worried that no one will want to marry me because I am circumcised, and will think I am gross. I am very worried because when doctors look at me (just check ups, nothing is wrong with me) they gasp, and make a very big deal out of it.

Please any feedback is so appreciated. (link)
The point of marriage here is that you love one another for who you are and respect the other persons belifes, culture, and so on. If a guy won't marry you for that then they are not worth your time. But don't let it bug you too much.


13/f

Its that time of age when everything changes!

I've been getting a lot of discharge lately& yes I've already started my period.

I just need a way to keep myself clean and odor-free down there.

Any HOME REMEDIES or certain ways to clean down there? (link)
It's normal, and for cleaning your self just use mild soap and also use like pantie liners.


19/F


okay i know that if you have a cold sore and you suck a guy off you can give him herpes. but if you have a sore throut[sp] can you still give him that?? (link)
No, you will not spread anything by giing him head while having a sore throat! The only thing you can spred is by making out and they possibly making him get sick with a sore throat!


this might sound really stupid but i really dont have any idea lol... how do the penis actually enter the vagina... yes i am a virgin lol. while having sex how does it actually get in there? will i be able to do it or him (link)
Well basically it is naturel and the guy does it don't you worry about it. It is all on him! Good luck and don't forget to be safe!


ive been fingered before many times [only by one guy]
and he ALWAYS wanted to finger me ofcourse i liked it but how does he get any pleasure out of that?
Basically what im asking is, why do guys like fingering girls so much and how can that get them horny?
Just by the feeling?
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Well mostly because they are getting to tuch you and they feel like it is making you happy while it is making them happy! Also by this they do not have to worry about getting you pregnant!


Does any one else find fingering someone/ getting fingered totally repulsive??
I dont see the pleasure in having someone's finger shoved up your vagina.

I dont know if that is odd, like if getting fingered is like sex...everyone just likes it.

Thanks in advanced! (link)
I would also have to agree with the second person that answered this, because when I was younger I thought it was nasty and gross because I had a boy friend that didnt exactly do it right. Then as I got older I had one that did it well and it made it much more plesurable. SO again then it goes back to if it is being done right. But I know some people who think it is totally gross, and also does not respect your self. So it is just a matter of opinions! Hope that helped!




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