I am 16 years old. I am currently studying to take my A+ certification in Computer Maintenance Technology.
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Location: Waynesboro, VA
Age: 16
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Alright. I was under the influance of drugs earlyer. I smoked some weed (I know its not good and I dont recomend anyone doing it) I hadnt done anything bad for about a month so i was like.. alright just one time for fun. Well I was with my friend and this guy. We went to his house and was chillen in her basement. Then we decided we would go someplace so my friend went upstairs to get in the car and it was just me and him down there.. He stopped me from going up the stairs and started makin out with me. I stopped cuase I new I was on stuff and wasnt thinking right. For some reason I feel really gross because I know what would have happend if i hadnt of stopped it! I dont know why but i feel like he should have known not to because I was under the influance of drugs and that I wasnt thinking clearly.. Is this wrong for me to feel gross and humiliated? What can I do? (link)
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no its not wrong. of course you made a mistake, but he just wanted to take advatage of you. but its good you realized it was wrong
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ok so i just had unprotected sex yesterday, and i havent had my period for this month yes and just hypotheticaly speaking if i am pregnant then will i have a period this month or will i not because i preganant or does it not start till your 2nd month? (link)
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sometimes you can get your period when your pregnant. but it is rare. but most of the time for me i didnt use a condom either and nothing happend.. so i dont know it depends also on the position if u cummed inside of you. like if you were on top. there will be a less chance because it isnt going to go all the way in. i kinda doubt it
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I am 16 and I just had lost my virginity to my bf. He and I are in love and I wanted it to be with him. We have used protection, but during my first time I lost a lot of blood, presumably because of his size. It did pain to an extent, but there was just so much blood loss and I wonder is that an issue? Does that mean there is something wrong with me? We tried having sex again after my first time in a couple of days because we didn't finish but I still was bleeding. I’m scared and well the bleeding went away, but I haven’t gotten my period. It’s already like 4 days late and I’m scared. My bf says I probably have not gotten it because I lost a lot of blood during sex and he is positive that I am not pregnant because he didn’t even ejaculate in me and we used a condom. I’m scared because well does this mean I’m pregnant or Is there something wrong with me? (link)
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you might have gotten your period while having sex
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what are some symptons of getting herpes on the mouth? cause i gave head like 2 weeks ago and a few days ago i got a cold sore and then yesterday i got another one and it was like a blister but on the mouth and also smaller though.. (link)
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it is possible. you should go see a doctor.
more symptoms are:
Pain, burning, tingling, or itching occurs at the infection site before the sores appear. Then clusters of blisters erupt. These blisters break down rapidly and, when seen, appear as tiny, shallow, gray ulcers on a red base. A few days later, they become crusted or scabbed and appear drier and more yellow
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I had sex about 3 days ago and yes it was my first time. I was bleeding after it but it kept bleeding so I thought it was my period. It's still bleeding now but I really don't think it's my period because most of the time it's bright red and just isn't like my period. Is it normal to still be bleeding? helpppp
15/f (link)
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yes it is normal. it might last as long as a period. or it could be your period. same thing happend to me
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well...its really weird...i have this strange flap of skin coming out of my lady part. its on one side...and it just seems like its stretched out or something. the only problem is...it hangs out and rubs against my underwear and its really uncomfortable. (link)
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a lot of girls have that. dont be ashamed of it. nothing to worry about.
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Well, what things to boys like, like just playin around.. but not antyhign to do with giong in their pants or antying. .For example things on the line of kissin their neck and lickin their stomach.. any other things that they really like without going inside their pants? =] (link)
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kiss their neck yes, rub their bellys, over their pants, and their backs while making out. theres alot of things you can do. you just gotta try out new things.
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how can you tell if ur pregnant or not. i mean i've been getting this weird feeling in my lower stomach
and i just had sex for the first time a few days ago.
does this feeling happen to all girls or am i pregnant?
please help thanks! (link)
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thats exactly how it will feel after you lost ur virginity and maybe a few times after. i doubt youre pregnant.
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14/f
theres this guy that ive known for like ever [9 years to be exact] and we've always had feelings for eachother and we've always been close but he doesnt exactly live very close to where i do. but when we see eachother its like we were nvr apart. so im going to spend a week with him and his family because we very close and im kinda hoping that maybe him and i will do stuff [sexually]. and im not sure if its wrong for me to be hoping or wanting it to happen. i mean in some ways im nervous about doing anything but then the other part of me is like yes do it. I'm not sure what i should do?
is it wrong for me to want to do stuff with him?
[hes 16 & im 14] (link)
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absolutely not! if you love him of course you are going to want to do things with him. it is normal.
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My boyfrined fingered me yesterday and i think he popped my cherry. how long and how much do you bleed after this happens? it may be my period but it started right after he did it...thanks. (link)
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yeah, it was youre "cherry" being popped. if it was only a little bit. but it could be a period. was it close to the time u usually get it? if so period if not "cherry"
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ive heard many stories, but if you have sex when is it easiest to get pregnant. i heard its easiest RIGHT b4, during, and after your period .. but my boyfriend told me its the hardest right after. does anybody know ?? please && thnxz (link)
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first of all she cant get pregnant while shes on her period. those are actually the least chance of getting pregnant. maybe you should stick with condoms =]
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Long thing cut in half. I'm 14/f and I'm bi and I'm not out of the closet and I'm not planning to come out of the closet anytime soon. I have a lot of gay/bi friends and I love them to death and I don't mind. They're out and they're carefree and don't give crap about what others say. But all good things have the iffy side. Some of my friends are homophobes, my family is a huge homophobe, and the school..80% is homophobic. It's really hard to get along with people now that I'm in high school. Some people tend to tease me because I have so many nonstraight friends. One time a group of guys that make fun of me and my bff--who is gay--on the bus rammed me with their shoulders on purpose because I was friends with gay guys. Some people won't even talk to me. And it's really getting hard to keep up this little image where I look perfectly find and don't mind as long as I have my friends. I don't know what to do about that.
And also, one of my gay friends always goes "You're the only straight person in our group. We need to turn you bi" And I don't know what I'm suppose to say. I just laugh it off. But I'm already bi and I can't risk telling them because I feel intiminated and they're really gossip-y so heh no way. Some people ask if I'm bi also because I have so many gay/bi friends. ANd I don't want to say no but I have to or else it gets iffier.
So my questions are: what do I do with the school people situation and what do I say with the "be bi"/"Are you bi" statements said to me? (link)
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well im also sorta bi.. like.. i dont know yet. BUT all my friends know. they dont care. i dont see why people make a big deal about it. My parents are big homophobes too! so i dont tell them anything about that. i dont know like 50% of my school is gay or bi.. so i guess theres a difference there. tell them to fuck off if they dont like it. show them youre not afraid of them. laugh at them when they make fun of you. just have a great time with your friends in front of them. they will leave u alone. these stupid ugly girls make fun of my all the time. its funny tho. so i laugh at them. and have a great time to show them i dont give a shit what they say and it doesnt bother me.
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ok so i like this guy -we'll call him j- and well my friend --a-- likes him a lot! and i sorta like him too but he doesnt kno and its kinda gettin' sad. i say j is like my "sister" -even though he's a guy- my friend doesnt kno. i want him to go to the valintime dance with me but A LOT of girls like him, like the popular girls and even sum guys...-dont ask- i wanna show tat i like him but not in a obvious way. he is just so-so sweet and he is so nice to me on AIM. here's our normal convo:
me: hey
j: hi
j: so wut up
me: ehh nm & you
j: nuttin'
me: so how's johnny --he named his bed spread bcuz mine is named pinky--
j: he's good but he had to go into the wash
me: you're sooo evil!
me & j: hahahaha;lol;lmao
j: g2g do man-ly things
me: yaaaa ok
me: BURN
j: hey, you do more man-ly things then me
me: ya
j: tat means you're a boy
me: nooooooo
j: oOo....BURN
me goes away
i'm too scared to talk to him bcuz i'm scared he may ask *we're jus friends, rite* and i really dont lie...seriously!
any help is appreciated
♥ Flaggal --once again-- (link)
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Well. I've known my bf for 3 years. we didnt know we liked each other. till last month haha. we both thought we didnt like each other. we talked like that on AIM. I still am confused because he's adorable and im so.. ehh. alot of girls like him.. but he doesnt even care. he doesnt flirt with them or anything. You should tell him. Be like:
Hey..i think your really cute.
flirt with him a little.
He will hint it eventually.
And if he does like you great!
but if not.. im sorry, just try it out thought.
If he doesnt just try and stay friends with him.
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all my frineds make fun of me because my penis is too big, i am 14 and it is 9 inchies. Is i thought it was a good thing to have a penis. Is it? (link)
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oh course, its a great thing. Don't worry about the other guys. They are just jealous!
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My boyfriend said that me and him could only have sex if i would giv him head. And i told him that getting head isnt the only way of getting erected. Does anyone know any ways i can get him erected. I wanna get him erected for the fun of it not to have sex and i dont wanna give him head. But he can get me wet easily and probably enjoys it but i cant get him erected and he said the only ways 2 get him erected is giving him head or a really good handjob. I suck at giving handjobs. So how should i get him erected without giving him head? (link)
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makeout with him, rub his body, i dont know.. it's easy for me.. haha i dont know about you.
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I'm not like totally huge or anything I mean a have a lot of muscle in my legs and arms and stuff but I was just curious since I have a good majority of muscle and not totall huge would the special K challenge thing help my slim down my stomach and thighs? (link)
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It should help. Just watch what you eat. Eat healthy foods.
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