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i am 22, i love helping people. I have been through alot even though i am still young. I know alot about friend problems, dating, meeting people online, seriouse realtionships, sex, computers, and even parenting. i dont know anything about music that would be one thing i am not good at. I am more than happy to help any one who needs it.
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I haven't had sex and im 15... Am I a freak? Cause it seems like all my friends are talking about having sex and I don't even WANT to until I am married.

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Not at all most 15 shouldnt be having sex. Its wierd that they are you are totaly normal. Waiting till being married is a wonderful thing and i am happy for you. Dont feel wierd cause what you are doing is a wonderful thing


My boobs are different sizes, ones a b and ones a d, WHAT DO I DO? i can never find a good bra and i look lop-sided in all shirts! (link)
if you dont want surgry maybe you should just stuff one side to make it the same as the othere. its a fast fix but really only way to really fix it is surgry.


Hello i have a big issue with my husband watching porn. I feel like im not good enough for him. He promised me up and down that he hasnt watched it since the last time i told him how much i disliked it. I recently just found out that he's been watching it this whole time and now i feel like i cant believe him. He's in the army and he wont be home for 3 months. I know its not a big deal to alot of people but for me it is and promises mean alot to us. I'm just so devastated that he lied to me.. What should i do? (link)
I wouldnt see that view. Alot of women read juicy books and that doesnt mean there man isnt enough its just entertainment. some times it is just curosity i wouldnt be upset. but if you are maybe try talking again or send him alittle home made porn, or just provoctive pictures of yourself so you feel more included


hii. i was just wondering if wearing two condoms is better than one ?
thanks
kaitlyn (link)
No they cause friction and more likely to break


even when things are going fine, i still find myself wanting to end my life but not having the guts to do it. how can i keep my mood up and not get on everyones nerves? (link)
Go to a doctor. thats what i did, soon i found out medicine can help and that it wasnt my fault i felt that way. good luck


Sorry its so long :)

So my boyfriend 2 nights ago texted me while i was at work telling me about how this girl was hitting on him at the bar and asked me what he should do. I told him just tell her you have a girlfriend, and he said okay. When i get back from work, hes at the apartment, and so is this girl! Granted, another guy was there, but there sitting in the dark watching a movie and drinking some wine she brought over.

The other guy, Derek, told me that all night she was asking people if he had a girlfriend and that he never told her he did. Derek ended up telling her that Joe was taken, and after he told her that this girl, Susan still came over to my house.

I walk in and she got all pissed off that i was there, and she decided to leave. Derek offered her a ride home and she refused and when Joe asked if she wanted him to drive her she responded with a very fast yes.

So my boyfriend drives her home, comes back, and doesnt think he did anything wrong!

How can i make him understand that what he did was completely unfair. Im not a jealous person and i didnt say anything rude to this girl. All i want is to explain to him how he hurt my feelings.

How can i go about doing this? I dont want to yell or anything, so what is the best way i can go about explaining how he hurt me? (link)
I would dump him in a second. He doenst care that it is wrong. But if you really want to show him he was wrong do that same thing to him.


I love my boyfriend but how long in a relationship do u think u should wait to have sex? (link)
my 1st bf i waited two years, and that was when i turned 18. we dated on and off so i wasnt so sure. my current bf it was a week and we have been together for 2 and a half years. i just jumped into it with him and i am more in love with him then i have ever been with any one ever


So I've been dating this guy for like two months now. I really really like him we've been friends since I was in eigth and he was in ninth we're now a jr and a senior. Well friday night he went to a concert. His ex was there too and they dated for a year and a half. Well she got punched in the face and like any gentlemen would he helped her out. But maybe too much? He told me he picked her up and carried her out of the crowd. He said he held her until she felt better then they talked all night. It really bugged me because it feels like he left some things out. Well all weekend I just worried. I talked to him about it and he said that nothing happened. But at school today he came late and showed up at lunch. He came up and gave me a hug. And then his ex walked up and started talking to him. He completely shut me out and they walked away from our friends. They talked half of lunch. Naturally I was already bugged by what happened over the weekend. Well, I was really upset because she always tells him she still loves him, and he unblocked her number. Well so I decided I was gonna go get something to eat with my friend because I was tired of standing there being ignored by my boyfriend while he talked to his ex. So I went and got food and he texted me asking where I went about ten minutes later. He didn't even noticed I left he was so busy talking to her. Well I think he knew it bugged me. My eyes were watering. I know that I need to talk to him or something. What should I do? How should I approach this, I don't wanna sound like a paranoid girlfriend. (link)
i would talk to him and tell him if he still has feelings for her let you know. if he comes clean get over him if he tells you no try to work it out but dont waste ur time on some one if they are playing games. u r much to young and there are millions of fish in the sea


I'd like to start waxing "down there" because when I shave it grows back quickly, but the stubble isnt long enough to reshave for awhile and it's annoying. I definitely wouldnt feel comfortable having someone else wax me there. I tried waxing once a lot time ago and it didnt really turn out well. Like the hair didnt come off with the wax. So I was wondering what are the best brands for at home waxing. And any tips to make it work better would also be appreciated. Oh and I want to be completely hairless down there if that makes any difference! lol 18/f (link)
I watch tyra alot they tried waxing and they couldnt find a good at home wax. so pretty much what ever u use its gonna get messy




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