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is it true that putting vaseline on your eyelashes before bed makes them grow or appear longer? i saw it somewhere and just wondering if anyone has ever heard of it.
i have never heard of that. before bed, i put on nutritional mascara. that makes it appear thicker & longer. i don't even use regular mascara anymore!
Okay So you know where you type in the website that you wanna visit? (such as http://www.advicenators.com) well... You know how when you have already been to that perticular website you can just scroll down and it will be listed right.
Well How do you remove those websites so they can't appear when you scroll down?
I know this sounds stupid/crazy or whatever but I just recently bought a new desktop computer off of ebay and the previous owners websites are still listed.
Help... PLEASE
thanks
for mozilla -- tools -> options -> privacy -> clear private data.
does limewire cause really bad computer viruses? cuhz im on my laptop and i really dont want it to crash. and on my old computer, when i did virus scans, it said limewire was the most dangerous.
and one more thing, is limewire illegal? cuhz if it is, i dont want to do anything illegal.
-Anonymously
YOU'RE ALL WRONG! it's not illegal, buddy. it's only illegal if you share files, you silly people!! oh my god..
you download a song from someone -- then THEY'RE liable. however, if you don't let other people download from you (you can switch the settings to not share files) then it's fine.
i have been using limewire for many years now and it's never done anything to my computer. don't download stupid files -- & before a file is completely finished preview it to make sure it is real. e.g., if it's a song, play it to make sure you can hear it.
you can always delete the files you download from limewire too by going to my computer.
it has saved me thousands of dollars. you can use iTunes if you want but you'll only be wasting money.
EDIT:
that's not your problem =) & it doesn't matter. as long as other people don't download from you, it's not your problem to deal with, sweetie.
ive been trying to lose weight and its been the hardest thing ever.
i have to lose 15 pounds in 4 weeks, and trust me, losing that much will make me normal, not anorexic, so its okay.
ive been telling myself ill diet tomorrow, etc etc, but its so hard! like i keep eating and i have no self control. i used to look at pictures which would keep me determined but it doesnt work anymore.
what should i d0? what can keep me determined?
write it down. but don't just write it and forget about it. keep it by the fridge, look at it when you wake up and before you go to bed. write down what you want to change, how you'll change it, and how happy you'll be if you accomplish your goal.
don't keep the food near you. tell your parents to stop buying chips & soda, etc. etc. so that you don't become tempted. cut fruit into small containers / bags and keep them in the refrigerator for when you get hungry. and drink at least 65 oz. of water everyday. always keep water near you.
I am 24 and 5'7 and noticed about a month ago that i have this huge indent below mt hip..
How do you get it?? i have heard it is from tight jeans is that true? or how?
But i really would like to know how to get rid of it, because it makes me feel self consious when i am wearing clothes or even if i am not wearing any ...
And i do have love handles hanging over my hips, and eveb that makes me self consious..
Help..?
it could very well be because of tight pants & underwear pressing your skin. usually mine go away as i sleep at night, but i would suggest that you wear nighties to bed and buy looser jeans, skirts & underwear. if you have love handles, there are a variety of exercises that you can do to remove them.
http://www.google.com/search?q=love+handle+exercises&ie=utf-8&oe=utf-8&aq=t&rls=org.mozilla:en-US:official&client=firefox-a
so i want to get this haircut
http://photobucket.com/image/emo%20haircut/Siera_Ashley/emo-9.jpg?o=38
what should i tell the hairstylist?
i dont want to say..i want emo/scene hair,cause i dont think she knows what that is, and plus it sounds pathetic
i think it's important to print out the picture & show her. however, remember, just because you want a certain haircut does NOT necessarily mean that it would look good on you. perhaps try explaining to her that you want that haircut, but if it wouldn't look good for your face shape (e.g., that girl has a variety of short layers. if you have a very round face, that would look awful), if there exist any variations of the haircut that WOULD look good.
Hi, I'm kinda poor in studies, especially in languages and math. Could you please provide some advice on how I can do better? Especially in languages because I can't understand the darn questions. Any help will be appreciated. Thanks.
first of all, you can EASILY go to google and type in "study tips math / english / foreign language" -- but i'm assuming you have already tried that...
http://www.google.com/search?hl=en&client=firefox-a&rls=org.mozilla%3Aen-US%3Aofficial&hs=MZT&q=study+tips&btnG=Search
keep playing around with the words. try "how to study for [foreign language / math]"
there are hundreds of ways you can improve your study skills in those classes. GO TO GOOGLE. i promise. i was just doing this yesterday and there are bazillions of websites ready to help you.
i shaved my arms when i was little.now im 16 and the darkness and how much hair their is bothers me. should i continue shaving? should i bleech?
what are your suggestions?
use nair. don't bother bleaching. don't shave your arms anymore. it makes the hair all thick and prickly.
17/m.
my ex gf of 7 months [we broke up in may] has been 'talking' to my best friend. theyre personality dont even go together. and this is bothering me so much! i have to spend a week with her @ camp next week, and i cant avoid her because theres not alot of girls going. and my best friends likes her back.
what should i do?!?!?! just let them be? or talk to them? or what?
honestly, if he's your BEST friend, you should talk to him about it and inform him that it's making you uncomfortable that they talk so much. even if you don't like her anymore, he should respect the fact that it would be madd awkward if anything got started between him and your ex.
I am female, 21years old and from South-Africa. My boyfriend was biosexual before we've met,as he told me.We have a serious relationship know and i love him alot,butI am scared he will turn gay after a few years. Should i rather leave him know,or just accept him for who he is?
don't leave him! if you're really in love then have fun while it lasts. if he admits that he is gay, then you can decide what to do next.
i have really dry skin and i was wondering wat kind of make up would be best to use for my skin and wat kind of stuff can i use to make it not dry
hey
i highly recommend that you wash your face twice a day -- once in the morning to remove dead skin cells and once at night to remove make-up. it's very important to exfoliate as well to remove the dead skin cells. soap & water will not cut it for you. exfoliate!
after you wash your face in the morning, MOISTURIZE your face! your make-up may end up "caky" otherwise. i recommend the 24-hour moisturizer by johnson & johnson. i have t-zone pimples (the area between my eyebrows and my nose are oily, but the rest of my face is dry) so i only apply the moisturizer on my cheeks and around my eyes because i wear concealer.
and before you go to bed at night, moisturize your face! your skin and body repair themselves at night as you sleep, so if you go to bed with a good amount of moisturizer on your face, it won't be as dry in the morning.
if your skin peels often, go to do a dermatologist and they can help you find a cream that helps with the dryness.
I got my period this morning. I'm going on vacation this coming thursday [17th] will it be gone by then?
it completely depends on your own cycle. how long does your period usually last? it most likely will finish by then because periods usually last anywhere between 3 & 7 days. if it isn't finished, it'll be really light. try exercising and cleaning out your vagina well in the shower and it should just be spotting by the time thursday comes around.
i have this reoccurring dream that i get pregnant and i dont remember being pregnant..its like i just had a baby in a day. also in the dream i dont tell my boyfriend im pregnant. i just leave him and dont talk to him and then my mom makes me call him and tell him after the baby is born. is this dream because im scared life will go to fast ? but i dont understand why i wouldnt tell my boyfriend. in real life lately it seems like life is zooming by and i dont have time to enjoy it. im thinking that maybe im having this dream because a few of my friends have babies and it seems like just yesterday they were only a few months pregnant and now already they baby is almost a year old. i feel like when i get pregnant in the future i wont have time to enjoy it?
yes, your friends being pregnant may definitely make an impact on your dreams. your dreams, are in essence, a projection of your true concerns from your waking life. they cannot be controlled, but merely influenced by what's going on in your waking life. sometimes, dreams have NOTHING do with one's waking life, but many times there are symbols present in one's dreams that help uncover mysteries situations in one's waking life, and help one to draw conclusions.
http://dreammoods.com/cgibin/searchcsv.pl?method=exact&header=dreamsymbol&search=pregnant
" To dream that you are pregnant, symbolizes an aspect of yourself or some aspect of your personal life that is growing and developing. You may not be ready to talk about it or act on it.� This may also represent the birth of a new idea, direction, project or goal."
i think, based on what you said about life going by very quickly, you're getting this dream because you feel pressured in some way to grow up and become an adult. you are most-likely a teenager, getting older with each passing year, and as a teen gets older, he or she experiences more and more stress and pressure to grow up and go to college and have a family, etc.
i cannot tell you exactly why you wouldn't tell your boyfriend in your dream. perhaps it was a negligible detail, or maybe it was because you were scared in your dream. you didn't mention having any relationship / trust issues with him, but if you do (even the slightest bit, or because of a past experience with him), that may definitely have contributed to why that happened in your dream.
So It's almost May, In my country it's been +14 degrees (+57 Fahrenheit) for like three weeks and I have a pretty bad cough...and I've had it for like 2 weeks.
It sounds like a smoker's cough, but I haven't smoked for like 2 years now.
I'm not around smoke either unless I'm at concerts, and that's a few times a year.(and my last concert was in December)
But yeah, the cough is pretty bad, and it hurts my chest.
Does anyone know what this could be?
It's really been pssing me.
hey
it could either be as a result of the cold weather or something more serious. it could just be congestion in your chest area due to the mucus build up. if you haven't smoked recently, it may not be necessarily from that.
because it's been happening for three weeks, definitely make an appointment with your doctor. in the meantime, try to sip on some light tea, and take some OTC (over the counter) cough / congestion medicine. try to stay indoors as much as possible, and wear warm clothing in case it's from a cold / flu.
feel better!
I'm so virgin it's not evevn funny.
I've never had sex, never fooled around, never had a boyfriend, and I've never evven had a first kiss with anyone other than my Grandmother.
I've missed my period for over a week. I looked up the signs of pregnancy and I have them all...?
It sounds so silly for me to ask this but it's bothering me.
i doubt you're pregnant. if you haven't fooled around with a guy, it's highly unlikely. if you're so worried, get a pregnancy test.
What are some catchy dance/techno/funky songs that if I played my friends and I would get totally hyped up and dance around like maniacs? Nothing too mainstream, any bouncy, with a beat and lots of bass is good. Please help me out! Thanks
it's all i listen to.
"put your hands up for detroit" by fedde le grand
"find a new way" by young love
"discotech" by young love
"call on me" by eric prydz
"gimme more" by britney spears, hahah.
"boom boom boom boom" by the vengaboys, haa.
"satisfaction" by benny benassi
"hit my heart" by benny benassi
"sexyback" by justin timberlake
"what hurts the most" by cascada
"everytime we touch" by cascada
"banquet" by bloc party
"flux" by bloc party
and my all-time favoriteee dance songggg
"now you're gone" by basshunter :]
when a guy fingers you is it like sticking a tampon in or is it bigger
& is there anyway 2 make it loose if ur still a virgin
um it's not like sticking a tampon in cause it's a lot more pleasurable. his fingers are probably bigger cause guys usually finger with two fingers, not just one. you don't want a loose vagina -- guys like it tight. it'll be more pleasurable. the only way to make it looser is to have sex. or masturbate a lot, i guess.
Does anybody know how or where i can get free itunes codes?
i don't think you can, but if you want free music for your iPod, just use limewire. i've been using it for 5 years now and i don't have any viruses. it's not illegal. it's only illegal if you share files (limewire is pretty much this: someone uploads a music file or whatever, and someone else downloads it. as long as you aren't letting other people download from you, it's fine.) you can change the settings for that -- inbox me.
is it weird for me and my bf to be curious and explore things..such as fingering my butt?
no, it's not weird. people like exploring other parts of the body, but like the two people below me said, keep it clean or you could get an infection because your butt has a lot of bacteria.
13/f
I was unpset at school today. and my best friend wanted to know what was wrong with me. I told her not to worry about it. But she saw that I was really upset. She told me that she would get really mad at me if i didn't tell her what was wrong. I told her that I don't think that her and her boyfriend make a good couple and that i think that she deserves a LOT better. Well she got mad at me and said that i like to start drama for fun. Of course I don't like starting drama. If I would have thought drama was fun I would have told her right off the bat. So what should I do?
Should I be her friend or what?
well honestly, she seems like a TERRIBLE friend! i mean, if something was bothering MY friend, i know i would NEVER say, "i'll get mad at you if you don't tell me!" and i know my friends would say something like, "if it makes you uncomfortable, you don't have to tell me. but just remember, i'm always here for you if you need to talk."
ugh, and then she goes and gets mad at you? she doesn't deserve you as a friend.
it's so sad that you ended up telling her that she and her boyfriend don't make a good couple cause she deserves better. -- she has a right to be upset with you because in the end, it is her choice, although you did mean it as a compliment.
in any case, try talking to her, tell her you're sorry, be comforting. don't openly say you're mad at her -- it'll cause more drama. if she's being mean and won't talk to you, just give her time if you still want to be her friend.
but i hate people like that. what kind of friend is she? she might have been a good friend in the past but look. you're only 13. find someone who can be a real friend to you unless things work out between you guys...
heybbylovee.