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Member Since: October 8, 2005
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Last Update: January 18, 2009
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How do you make myspace all colorful and pretty?

Do you use html ooor .. is there a place you can get, like .. premade layouts?

Thanks. (link)
Yes. I'm a myspace expert. Go onto my profile www.myspace.com/rockstolemysoul and you will find, somewhere on my page something that says "THIS PROFILE WAS CREATED WITH....." click on that and it will take you to somewhere where you can make a layout. Then when you generate the code, put it in your "about me"

You only use Html color to type on your profile, leave comments..etc.


Okay so my gynocologist put me on seasonale and it gives you 1 period every 3 months. Well this is my first time on this medicine and im only on the second month around the time my period would normally be. So I've had this "period" for about a week and 5 days and my cramps arent even like period cramps, they are sharp pains not like aches. Is it possible that I'm pregnant, the lining of my uterus is cleaning out, or i had a miscarrage? I want to go to the doctor cause it hurts and the blood is brown not red... what's wrong with me? Please be honest... can I still bleed and be pregnant? (link)
Yes, you can still be pregnant when you have your period. It is possible. You need to go to your doctor and speak with him about this SOON because this is irregular. I wish you the best of luck.


i really like this guy.. a lot =[ i know im only 13 but i like him so much i really do. He just moved here in fifth grade, adn i liked him the first day.. hes was soo nice ! now 2-3 years later i still like him- ive been trying not to for soo long but i cant help it... we dont even talk anymore sorry this is so long =[ welll anyway he always flirts with my friends and hes like really popular and really cute he had like 5 "girlfriends" already. i never had a boyfriend. and im not that pretty, i dont think much of myself becasue i think i am kinda fat =[ i have what you call love handles and its soo embarassing.. he only likes skinny girls, im not saying im like a geek adn have no friends but i do have friends, real good ones to =] well thats a different story im trying to keep this as short as it can possibly be and sorry if i spell things wrong. i dont no what it is that makes him not even talk to me but i just wanna figure it out... sometimes hes nice but sometimes hes not i get confused. i just wnat things to go back how they used to be with us. do you have any ideas of what this could be about... =[ im soo confised and i really need to set this whole thing straight, its not wasy to talk to him when hes the most popular guy around, theres a whole other story but i think what i typed is most important.. please help!!

xoxoxoxo (link)
Holy Hell girl! Get some self-confidence. Screw those skinny girls. You should love yourself for who you are. If that guy doesn't like you for how you are, look, or act, then you need to move on. If he can't like you for who you are, you don't need him. I'm not going to try and tell you hwo to get this guy, but it sounds to me like it wouldn't work because you would feel the need to impress him. If a guy doesn't like you for who you are, you don't need him sweetie. Besides, that whole 5 girlfriend thing...I'll bet they weren't real relationships anyways. You should stay away, emotionally, from this guy.


Okay I want to put music on my myspace i have the url and its not a music video, but i dont know where to put it? help..? (link)
Put it under your "who you want to meet" thing. That's where mine is and it's not a music video.... www.myspace.com/rockstolemysoul

and that's what it'll be like...


So me and my boyfriend are having sex and hes been going in me cause im on the pill. Yea I know statistics so please dont lecture me... and we lost our virginity with each other... anyways question is, how do you keep everything in without it all leaking out?
I also get this discharge and when I orgasm its like a waterfall, so it gets everywhere.. how do i control that too? (link)
Sorry to say, but you can't stop it. It's natural and you just have to deal with it. If it bothers you that much, don't have sex. Millions of couples have sex and have to deal with that. It's completley natural.


ok. tonight i was with my friends. there was a bunch of people but the main people are keith and mandy. i like keith... and i went out with him before but then he broke up with me cause he just "wanted to be friends" and then tonight i was out hanging out with my friends and mandy got all mad at me cause i wasnt hanging out with her alot cause i was flirting with keith. i even hooked up with keith. now mandy is really mad at me cause me and keith didnt spend alot of time with anyone tonight except each other... but now i dont know what to do. she seems really frustrated... i cant even describe the whole situation. but maybe people could try to help? thanks... (link)
UUUUh oh! This sounds like a little jelousy.... I think that she either likes Keith, or is just jealous that you spend more time with him. I know how it feels to have a friend spend more time with her guyfriend/boyfriend then with me. Kind of irritating.
Well, you might not like this, but I do think that Keith is kind of a bad choice. You went out, you broke up, give it up sweetie. Guys like this aren't meant to be given another chance. Make a stronger bond with your friend that's a girl, and just be strictly friends with that guy, and if he keeps flirting it up, tell him that he needs to stop and you're not interested.


Hey everyone! Heres 2 basics..I'm 16 years old and female! Okay so now that that's out of the way. Heres my question:

My friend is having a costume party near the end of october. I think we are going to be outside, I'm not sure yet. But if we are I want a costume that will still look good even if it is humid or something. Um i'm very girly and I want something that all of my friends will like and complement me on...Um, i just want a cute costume and i have NO idea what i should go as. Any help will be appreciated. Thnkx (I rate high for good answers) (link)
Okay, you might not like this response, but I think you should go as a fairy princess or something. You said that you are girly. Don't show off too much skin because it's October and likely to be cold. I think that you should go for a cute princess dress, bought at any target, walmart, costume place, a crown, and some matching shoes. This would be the complete, cute, comfy, and totally compliment-prone outfit for a girly girl.


okay so yesterday i kissed my boyfriend and it was terrible! i want to know how to get into a situation with kissing without just saying hey lets makeout. i want to know what to do when i kiss him and what i should do with my lips, hands, and everything else. i want to intimatly makeout with him but im not sure how, please help I RATE 5's ALL THE WAY (link)
Well, that's my area right here. Of course you want to be intimate with him. And don't say "let's make out". Bad move. What you should do, when you're alone because PDA should be kept to a minimal, is slowly peck him on the lips once or twice, then move in with a LITTLE tongue, do NOT fork your tongue in and out of his mouth. Keep in mind that he'll kiss you the way he wants to be kissed, so mimic his kissing style. If it gets boring, spell out your name with your tongue, repetitiveness gets boring.
And for both of your sakes, kissing is about the mouth. Don't worry about what your hands are doing, don't grope him. And don't feel the need to rush into anything else.
Good luck with your kiss.


Yea this question is probably been like said a million and a half times. But I'm almost 17 years old and i wear a 36 B Only within the past year have my boobs become pointy. Like when I had an A bra they were perfectly normal. Is there a method of getting your boobs to a rounder shape...so that they are round when you are naked? (link)
I hate to tell you this, but there is no way to change your breasts without getting surgery. I am not suggesting that you get surgery though, but you are still a young teenager, and you have many more years for your body to fill out. MANY more years. Young teen girls such as ourselves often get frustrated because our boobs "just aren't big enough, round enough, firm enough, soft enough" there's nothing we can do about it, and in time, I believe this problem will solve itself.


14/f. Here's the thing. I am so in love (ok, like) with this guy. There's only one problem-He's my teacher! But he's so hott! He's also funny, nice, and smart. I really like him, but I don't want to b/c he's too old for me, and nothing's ever going to happen between us. How can I convince myself to not like him? (link)
Okay okay okay! Stop right there honey! You are not in love with him. You are just attracted to him. You can convince yourself by telling yourself what you just stated. He's too old, old enough to be your dad, and he's a teacher. If you did do anything with him, he could be arrested. You need to just give it up and find someone your own age. Teacher crushes never work. And if he is interested in you, that's a really bad thing because he is an older man and that's perverted. There are plenty of younger guys out there who I'm sure are wanting a relationship with a sweet girl like you. So wait for that to come, don't go after your teacher.


my boyfriend and i have been together for about 2 years now and im really upset tonight because he promised me he wasnt gonna go somewhere because todays our anniversary but then when he got here he told me he had to go and he couldnt help it. we got in a big fight before he left. i just had surgery and he wasnt able to be there because of his dad and this weeks been terrible. anyway we had a big fight and he said he was just gonna go so i could sleep and not be angry at him. and i havent talked to him since then and that was several hours ago and he said hed be back before then. i guess i dont really have a question, i just need someone to tell me something idk if anyone wants to talk on aim please leave me ur sn (link)
Okay, First off, don't chase after him and call him endlessly. You two just got in a fight, mind you a big one, and I can see your reasoning for being mad, but give him some space. You've been dating for two years, and I don't think this will result in a breakup, but you just need to give him space. Give him time and he will call you, when he does,apologize for getting upset and explain why you were upset, don't say "I'm sorry" over and over and over... Good luck


What's a garder? How do you make one? I have to make one for my homecoming date real soon & I have no clue how! (link)
Okay, well, garders are for weddings, not homecoming dances, and unless you're planning on marrying this guy....you don't need one. And you can't make them either. Wear something else, or you're inviting him to put his teeth up to your thigh.


I've been fingered a few times before, but I just got fingered tonight for the first time in a while. I don't want to sound too gross, but I was kind of dry for some reason (I think its because I was nervous.) Well when I came home, it burned when I had to go to the bathroom. Ive experienced this before, so is this normal? (link)
Well, for first off, excuse my language, but i'm trying to be blunt with you, it's not because you were nervous because that does not affect your privates. This is totally normal, you're not supposed to be fingered for longer then 5 minutes or, you get raw, thus the burning. So my advice it to either use some lubricant next time, and if it starts to hurt while he's in the process, ask him to stop because if it hurts then, it'll hurt for days, believe me.


does anyone no of a website that says all of taking back sunday's concerts? Like, where their going next and when... thanks in advance! (link)
Simply go onto Yahoo.com and type in "Taking Back Sunday Concert Listings" and they'll pop right up.


I'll be brief. There's this one pretty girl I knew in Junior High; although we weren't offically an item, we were very close friends. During the time we knew each other, we didn't exchange phone numbers, email, or anything like that. To make a long story short, I got in trouble with the law and was kicked out of the seventh grade. After the ugly rehabilitation process, I was missing her ALOT, but eventually I had to get over it, and started high school on a fresh note. Today, I get a call, and it's her. Obviously, I'm stunned she called; she tells me she got my number out of the phone book. She said she missed me and we talked for a looong time about our lives right now. During our chat, she talked about how she thought she was worthless, how her mom was being treated for AIDS, and bascially, things aren't good for her. She also said she liked me then(she even used the word "soulmates"), and although I told her I did too, the words didnt quite come out the way I expected. And thats where my question comes in. I have little to no experience with women, and would like to know ways to assert myself confidently, while not acting like a total jerk. I also want to make her feel less worthless about herself, because I do care for her. On top of that, she has a boyfriend already. How can I do all of this, without her thinking I'm trying to intrude on their relationship? She wants me to call her tomorrow at 7, so answers would greatly be appreciated before then. But don't worry if not, I'm sure I'll eventually talk face to face with her soon. For your information, I'm 15, and male. (link)
Okay...Yes, it seems like you have a difficult, and a confusing problem at hand. Well, she called you out of the blue, so it is a definite sign that she has some interest in you. A DEFINITE sign, but the whole boyfriend thing... That's a litle odd.
When you talk to her at 7, ask her about her relationship with her boyfriend and how that's going. Listen and respond. Then you should just go for it and tell her how you feel about her. But don't go "I LOVE YOU" because that's a sign of being desperate. Just say "Look, I've cared about you for a long time, and that feeling still holds true today. If you want to make something of that or if you feel the same way, then you should act on it, but I'm not going to try and intrude on your present relationship"
Plain and simple like that. That shows that you are not trying to break her up, but it still lets her know how you really feel about her.
I wish you the BEST of luck. (oh and i've been in this EXACT situation before and what i typed above, is the best solution, believe me)


14/f my friend's dad just died this morning. what can i do to show her that i care and that i'm here for her? i have no idea what to say to her because i've never experienced a real loss.. (link)
Okay, first off, do NOT smother her with "I'm sorrys". It will just make her feel the loss even more. You should let her know that you are there for her, and that any time she needs to talk, you're there, but don't do the sorry thing. In time, she will recover from this loss. I know how it feels to lose someone really close to you, and of course you're sad, but just knowing your friend is there for you is the best thing in the world, just not the sorry thing.


hey what does prep actuali mean ???? (link)
First off, "prep" isn't really even a liable word. It was made to describe a certain style of dress. It's not a type of person. It just defines how you dress. Being preppy is not being girly. This is just a stupid label people give to others. So my advice, just don't call people preps.


ok well im not aloud to date n im 13 years old is that like to young to date i mean cmon i am not little ????? (link)
The question is not are you too young to date. The question is are you mature enough to date. No one can determine that but you. Dating isn't about holding hands and making out. It's about having a real relationship with a guy and being able to talk to him and be there for him, and vice versa. So unless you feel ready to make a commitment, then no, you aren't old enough for dating.


ok well there's this guy...and i think i might like him! well... i used to really hate him, but i barely knew him...and now that i know him really well, we're really good friends- and hes so cute! he has a girlfriend who is in high school now (we are 8th graders) but he flirts with me a lot, he pretends to ask me out in a kidding way and he like tells me i'm hot, he actually flirts with a lot of girls though, especially one of my best friends, but i totally like him! another thing is that he used to go out with another one of my friends, who i am kind of making up. she really hates him now, though,and this is just so weird. I don't know what I should do! i like this guy sooo much! please help me! i rate ♥ (link)
Okay honey, I'm going to cut to the chase with you. This guy is a player. Nothing more to say. I've dealt with guys who are like this and nothing good ever, emphasis on ever, comes from "relationships" with them. They like one girl one day, and then the next day, it's a completley different girl.



What is the BEST energy drink for me to buy? (link)
I'm going to tell you from the get go. Energy drinks aren't good for you...period. All they do is shock your nervous system, giving you a boost of energy, and then you crash...So my advice to you, seeing as this is an advice collumn, is to give up the energy drinks and opt for gatorade.




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