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I'm full of random information, and I've found it to be veryyy helpful giving advice =] Plus I have ALOT of life experience so I feel that I could really help with anything. I won't lecture or judge you, because I am really trying to help you and answer your question. I know everybody says this but I really have been through it all, from family, relationship, and health prolems - I've been there. I'm only 17 but I feel like everything I've been through has matured me beyond my years. Chances are I can relate to your problems and tell you what really works. Feel free to ask me anything and i'll get back to you as quickly as possible x3

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i have a problem with a family member of mine and i'm thinking moving out, but im onli 15. i hate it wen people tells me that i shouldnt move out or that i should be put into foster care or something, i rather just handle everything on my own. but the problem is i dont have money to pay rent every month. i dont wanna drop out of school so i would realli appriciated if somebody can suggest a good job that i can work to help me move out, pay rent, and still be able to buy food and evrything else

I'm not going to lie, your situation is unfortunate. And I completely understand the fact that people telling you not to move out is fustrating, because it doesn't seem to help you at all. But the problem is leagally, you cannot rent out a place until 18, or drop out of school until 16 with a parental signature. Also you must be at the very least 16 years of age before getting a real job, which the truth is there are rare jobs a 16 year old can have that pay enough for rent. The only place you can move into at your age would be a dangerous, run down area and that would not be good for you in any way. Thus, i suggest moving into your grandmother's or some other relative. Ask then sincerely, and say it is for your best and that would be your best route to freedom. I understand this is not what you want to hear, but it is the truth.

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Ok so i was wondering is it better to eat/drink dairy products when you're on a diet or not?

Also, im somewhat large chested, and i was wondering what can i do to keep from hurting when i run. I wear a sports bra sometimes but that doesn't help. Ive also tried it with a regular bra. But that doesnt help either..so does anyone know of anything i can do? its alwasy miserable the day after i run.

thanks, 5s to all who answer seriously

yes, 3 servings a day of a nonfat or low fat dairy product is good for a person on a diet.

and for your chest, im sorry but you are going to have to shove out the buck and buy an expensive bra that really holds on tight. along with that buy one of those stretchy pilates tank tops to run in they will add even more extra protection. along with this your boobs will be pretty held back and shouldn't move or bounch much when you run, thus no pain in the morning. im telling you though, the expensive bras do make a huge differance.

if your bras are already victoria's secret's best, then i suggest you run on grass or a soft surface instead of the hard cement or tredmile. the impact will not be as harsh so your chest will not hurt as much from the hard impact. we did this in cross countrym if our boobs or back started to hurt and the surface you run on really does make a difference the next day.

good luck XD

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I take really advanced classes in school, I have been dealing with a ton of drama lately, and I have been worrying a lot about my prom coming up soon. So I have been REALLY stressed. I want to know does anyone have any type of stress relievers that you don't have to buy? If so it would be greatly appreciated.

ok well bubble baths really do help if they are planned carefully. make sure the water is hot, so it doesnt cool off too soon and make sure all towels and everything are set maybe some candels or perfume. they are much nicer w/ tons of bubbles and soft music.

hot towel over your forhead w/ vicks vapor rub on your chest while just resting. i know it sounds wierd but my friend suggested that once to me and it did help.

poetry

laying outside for a while with some lemonade or something cool and refreshing. the sun releases chemicals that will make you happy and relaxed. the same chemical is found in hershey's chocolate.

a facial, pamper yourself

aleo vera if you have any in your bathroom, usually used for sunburn but works wonders in masages and/or just over muscles when you lay down.

and the best sress reliever i know, and often do is running. now it doesnt matter if your not a good runner. a brisk jog OUTDOORS helps relax your body and actually release endorphins that will lower stress and help manage anger or sadness.

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hey i really love emo mucic i just dont know any good bands and if you have any id love any bands. thanks.. ill rate 5's

Panic! At The Disco

The Used ** my person fav. **

We Are Scientists **not a very well known band so you could be unique! lol**

Dashboard Confessional **you need to get used to them, then you'll love them, so give them a chance**

My Chemical Romance

Fall Out Boy **kind of emo**

All American Rejects **kind of emo**

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A few weeks ago, I noticed one little red bump on the back of my thighs near the bottom of my buttocks on the right side, then i noticed a few more then they were appearing on the other side, it has been a few weeks with them there without getting worse, now I have one father down my thigh. I went to the doctor and he said it is probably just due to dryness and to moisturize but I have been and its not working!! Any ideas?

thanks i will rate high

i have the exact same problem on my arms. Your right, lotion is basically uneffective with this, although a lotion called Eucerin Plus will help reduce the amount of visible bumps by 70%-80% if used everyday. Who knows, it may just cure you.
Also, my friend has such an extreme case that she takes medication for it. I'm sure if you ask your doctor he just might recremend some for you.
hope i helped

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ok i think im pregnet but i havent had sex. but i learned that sperm can live up to an our after leaving the penis and i was all over my friend w/ benefets with only underwear on. i have one of the symptoms witch is being able to smell things really well. do u think i could be pregnet, if so what should i do?


blondie

Your are not pregnant, for sure. Many girls don't get pregnant after having unpretected sex let alone while not even undressed completely! There is absolutely no way you can be pregnant so don't worry, relax, your symptoms are probably all mental. hope i helped

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Hi.

I am 14 years old, and lets just say my name is S. I am a girl, and a diabetic. I sometimes don't get my periods, its irregular and have went to the doctor about it. They said theres nothing they can do except give me birth control, which my mom did not want me on. I have about 9 or 10 lumps (size of tiny pimples) around my left and right nipples, and soreness around my breast. I really do not know if this is breast cancer related, but I am too afraid to go to the doctor. I am afraid to show anyone my body, so I won't go to a family member, or like I said, a doctor.. can one of you please give me some advice before I go to drastic measures such as my MOM?
sincerely,
S.

THIS IS NOT BREAST CANCER, it is completely normal. I understand, i freaked out as well when i noticed the bumps and my period was irregular. Truth is, the majority of girls have irregular periods, i have had it for two years and am still irregular. It is just how your body functions, it does not mean you are sick. The bumps around your nipples are actually suppose to be there. They are used in nursing when you get older. many people (if not all) have these, if not always at a point in their life. The soreness is normal, your boobs are growing. Mine still hurt now and then, lol and it does suck to be a girl. Don't worry darling.
Hope i helped

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What happened to that show that came on MTV "The Reality Show"? It just like stopped coming on all of a sudden. Did they cancel it or something? I really enjoyed that show..

it was canceled due to extremely low ratings. sorry

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whenever im home alone, or even at school with other people, i constantly act as if im being watched. if that makes sense. and at night while im laying in bed i pretend as if im somewhere else and that im not mearly a student, but that im a secret agent hiding out for the night, or that ive been evacuated from the state because i know too much and im in the white house. im 18 years old..wtf is wrong with me? what do i do?(female)

nothing is wrong with you! you just have an overactive imagination that causes you to be a bit paranoid. lol, it is not really anything to worry about too much. If it really is bugging you seek therapy, because it probably relates to your childhood imagination and events.
hope i helped

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im 14/f. almost 15 what age do you think its appropriate to lose your virginity?

it is differant for everybody. You should set your own standards and decide the right time for yourself, when YOU are ready, not when you hit the average age. My opinion, at least wait until 17 at the minimum so your mind is ready to ajust to the mental attatchment that follows sexual activity. otherwise, you may regret doing it when you were not mentally ready. Again, one way to avoid all problems following sex is to wait until marriage. But in the end, it is your decision to make when you feel ready.

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Yesterday I was a size 32a non cup bra. I have a bra that is paded and is a size 34 a that used to be my sis's. Yesterday it was like big on me. I woke up this morning and my regular bra that I wear was small on me. I still wore it but its as lose as it can go. I tried putting the 34 a on and it fits me. Do you think it's irnormal to grow a boob size over night?

you probably have not grown a full cup in one night, this is just the first time you notice. You probably have been growing in such small amounts that it was unnoticable until your bra size seemed to be bigger.
or
when boobs grow the growth cells sometimes swell causing for your boobs to be bigger then usual, although you probably did grow your boobs may have just been swolen and a bit bigger that morning so it seems like they grew overnight.

hope i helped

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whats a good program that i can use to get rid of the viruses on my computer and make it go faster? and also to get rid of junk thanks

Nortton Anti-virus is the best computer virus protection available. After a while your computer will automatically update, be faster, smarter, and get rid of pop-ups and junk.

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Hi. In my history class we're working around propaganda, and so we had to pick an issue in the world right now and make an ad about it. I picked the Iraq war. Naturally, an ad either paints half-truths or goes in for emotions, but I cant think of WHAT to advertise for, really...soldiers? money for the war? What exactly? I want it to be unique and not boring and stuff. Any ideas, anyone? I'd love to hear your thoughts.

o wow i did this EXACT project in 8th grade, lol. depends, do you want it for america or against? if it's for then you can draw an angry looking iraqi behind a strong looking american soldier and it can say "help us fight terrorism"
if it is for iraq it could have Uncle Sam (american icon) taking oil from some helpless iraqis and captioned "Don't let them take over" or an american soldier beating an iraqi, or a bombed village, captioned "look what they've done"
hope i helped!

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Ok when I drink sometimes I can drink a lot and be normal but other times I can drink very little and get wasted. Why does this happen?

it depends on where you are, and what you are drinking. obviously tou will get wasted much easier with a small amount of vodka rather then more beer or wine. Also, if you are at a crazy party it might seem like you get wasted easier because there is nothing really holding you back, a mental trick. but if you are alone, it might be harder to get that wild and crazy again.
hope i helped

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I am on the yearbook staff this year - and need some help coming up with some superlatives. Here's my problem - I don't want things that everybody doesn't have a chance at such as "Best Dressed" Here's what we have come up with so far

Funniest
Sweetest
Best Hair
Most Creative
Most Outgoing
Most Athletic
Best Smile
Best Eyes
Most Likely To Suceed and
Most School Spirit

Any suggestions would be nice, but preferably not ones like "Most trendy" "Best dressed" and such because thats just demeaning..

i know that ym school has ones like...
most likely to age well
most likely to become president
cutest couple
Most likely to become famous
Best musician (not everybody has a chance with that but w/e)
most likely to be caught looking in a mirror
the best friends

i appologize if some are lame, that is just some that my school does. lol, hope i helped!

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What good *recent* scary movies have come out on DVD?

Texas Chainsaw massacre (SO SCARY!)

Saw (BEST! MY FAV.)

Amityville Horror (scary as hell)

those are the top 3 best.

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does anyone have any favorite dance songs? like techno, dance, hip hop, r&b, spanish, etc. anything like that.

thanks!!!!

the Cd Jock Jams was made for dance songs and cheerleading dances, look that up and you will find tons of great dance songs.
hope i helped*

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I have to learn all the countries, their locations, and their capitals by tomorow. ( I have 3 tests on them tomorow ) Any ideas to help me study, I'm having alot of trouble and these are major tests!!

- I`ll rate wayy high.

write the country, and capital on the page repeatably until you memorize it. then point out a way to distingguish the capital like, USA and Washington DC both have initials, u.s.a = d.c.
a little rhyming song usually halps me. it's lame, i know but i always sing one to myself while studying and it helps!
read your notes out loud, it is more effective then just reading to yourself because the message is sent through your brain three times instead of one.
If you need shorter names, use initials. like Spain and it's capital Madrid would be S-m or if that's too general, SP-MD. this is only effective if the test includes a word bank.
hope i helped and good luck on your test!

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what POSITIVE effects come from birthcontrol? i heard it lightens your period and helps you lose weight. can you take it even if your not/dont think you are pregnant?

first of all, birth control is for when you are NOT pregnant, it is sued to avoid pregnancy and can not be used if already pregnant. so yes, you can use it if you are not pregnant.
some positive effects are, as you said, lightening your period and helps get rid of cramps! You don't gain as much water weight, and you never have to worry about getting pregnant in case you have a "spur of the moment" romance, lol.
lotz of love*

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heyy guys.. well my best friend is taking this reallly cute guy to homecoming, but i don't think he likes her anymore. but he i think he flirts with me aloot. i mean calling everydayy, texting at 430 in the morning, texting to wake me up in the morning.. aw. yea i know he's sweet but like when i see him at school it doesn't seem like he likes me? cause i think he is such a cutie! do yall think he likes me or what? pleaaasseee help!! thxx (rate)

remmeber, he is taking your friend to homecoming. whether she likes him or not it is still disloyal. so take it easy until after homecoming, then flirt up a storm! hug him in the hallways and hang all over him creating a close relationship. then, let him know how you feel and just wait for him to ask you out!
hope i helped*

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