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Im 16 my boyfriend is 17 and we have been dating for almost a year. I love him alot and we never get into fights. He is so sweet to me but sometimes i feel like he relies on me too much for sexual pleasure. He isnt a pervert by any means(trust me i have already expireienced those..) and my parents love him. The other thing that annoys me the most though is when we are texting and then he just stops in the middle of a conversation or he takes 30 minutes to respond... i have talked to him about this before and he tries to make improvements but it still hapens all the time. When we hang out together we always have a great time though and i love him alot. So should i break up with him or not? Is that a good enough reason to.break up with him or is that unfair? (link)
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17-yo boy has sex on the brain? No kidding. If you want a guy who doesn't want sex all the time, you'll have to wait until middle age.
As for the phone thing: I had this problem with a chick. I think the ting causing it was that we had different mobile phone companies, and they didn't exchange texts promptly between their machines.
If you can't handle not having his attention focused on you for more than 30 minutes, if you nag him about it and make him promise to "make improvements", well, you are using each other aren't you? He's using you for sex, you are using him for attention and validation.
It sounds bad, but it's pretty normal. Maybe you should both try to cool it once in a while.
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My friend Jezz is getting married and I am the maid of honor. One of my task is to make sure all the bridesmaids have their dresses. I spoke with two of the other bridesmaids and delivered the news that Jezz said the dresses can be their choice as long as it wasn't racy and had to be red. Jezz had a talk about how all bridesmaids where to pay for their own dresses, Now the bridesmaids are expecting their dresses to be paid by the bride and it is causing a great deal of stress. Dress fittings are next week.... (link)
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Weddings are expensive enough without having to buy other people's clothes for them. Bridemaids need to buy something that they'd be happy to wear (or get altered a bit).
It's different if the bride wants them to wear some particular ugly-looking bridesmaids dress. But that isn't the case here (unless it, like, actually is).
As maid-of-honour, it's your job to enforce rule #1: no attention-stealing from the bride. I don't know much about clothes and stuff, but bridesmaids should cover up. They can cut the skirts shorter after the wedding, if they want.
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i'm 13 i've been with my boyfriend for 9 months and i kind of want to sex. idk though. help!? (link)
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Don't. "Kind of want to" and "idk" is nowhere near good enough. There'll always be guys wanting to sex you for the next 15 years - you have plenty of time to leave it until you actually want to.
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I've had a close friend since the ninth grade. it's been 2 and a half years and we are still friends... "friends". I don't feel the same way about her as I did then. I feel like any other friend I ever had has done to me. They built up this competition between the two of us. It's ridiculous. We're friends it should not be this way. Only every girl I have ever gotten close with does this to me. I don't care if she is smarter than me or thinner than me but it occurred to me the past year that this is exactly what worries her. Being the better of the two of us. It hurts because I've done this so many times and although the most reasonable thing is to just not let it get to me and not let her be as close to me as I used to let her. It's just so much history to let go of. (link)
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And this explains why your so often see girls in triples - two reasonably ok-looking girls and one not-so-ok looking. The ok-looking ones have her around so they have someone to dump on other than eqach other, and the not-so-ok one takes the abuse because the guys have to assign a wingman to, uh, deal with her.
It works well for everyone.
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Okay i am 13 years old and i got my period at 10. At first my period would go off then go regularly. But now its flowing okay. But now on this week it supposed to come on. I dont know if its going to come on this week. But i do masturbate time to time. But i know i Cant get pregnant from that. So is this normal. Or should i worry. Please give me your advice. (link)
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I wouldn't worry about your period being a bit irregular - you are 13. The only thing is the possibility that you may be anorexic or something, which is a possibility at your age.
Have you been starving yourself (like: no more than an apple a day)? Do you binge and purge (make yourself vomit)? If so, yes: you may have a serious problem.
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If you give head to a guy at a party while your boyfriend is not there does that mean you cheated on your boyfriend? Yeah, the guy was really hot but it's not like we had sex or anything. I didn't even let him finger me! My boyfriend is really pissed and won't talk to me now but I really can't see his reasoning or point of view. I've done this a few times before but I haven't told him about it and regret telling him this time. Do you think giving a blow job is REALLY cheating? I mean, come on...it's like...kissing...sort of...I don't see a problem. (link)
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Well, if your guy gave head to a guy at a party (while you weren't there), would that make him gay? I mean - it doesn't count as sex, right?
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