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what is lax? people always say they have a lax game. (link)
Lacross. Kind of La and then the X is supposed to stand for a cross.


Is it wrong to like my best friend's boyfriend? i feel like he can do so much better than her and the way she treats him bugs me..i really like him...he's like the perfect guy..its okay to crush on him as long as i dont take action right? (link)
yeah...its fine if you have a crush on him, but i wouldnt act on your feelings. Even if your friend doesn treat him badly, he has to be the one to pull out of the relationship, because if you pull him out, then your friendship with your best friend will undoubtly end.


I am 18 f I dont like my body cause I am tooooooo little I eat everything in front of me and then some but I cant gain wait for anything I know there is nothing wrong with me cause I went to the doctor what can I do (link)
There is something called a Kalteen bar (i'm not sure how to spell it), but they help you gain weight. If you have ever seen the movie mean girls, they used them in that, but they are real as well.


Okay..I have a reaaally bad Tanline on my chest from a halter top swimsuit. My 8th grade Promotion is in 2 weeks, and i'm wearing a strapless dress. What should I use? Will self tanner work? Oh, and I don't want to go to a tanning salon. (link)
i personally wouldnt use sunless tanner, only b/c then your tan would look uneven, because you are already dar in certain places. I would lay out in the sun without your straps on and hopefully the tann will kind of "fill in" otherwise, i wouldnt worry about the tanline too much, it will just look like your ready for summer!
good luck


My best friend's boyfriend really gets on my nerves. He calls me names and he is really immature. Last time when my best friend and I hung out all she did was talked to him on the phone but she later on apologized for it. When we are on the phone together all she does is talk about him. Its really annoying me to the point where I can't take it. What do I do to handle this problem? I know I must talk to her but what should I say? (link)
there is one thing that you have to remember...its her boyfriend and even though you dont like him, for whatever reason, she does. Just tell your friend that although you love to hang out with her, you would rather not hang out with her boyfriend, and when she wants to talk about him, not to call you. Hopefully she'll get the message.
good luck


Can anyone help me out? i'm looking to buy a day bed with a matress that pulls out from underneath..but i dont want it to come up..i just want it to pull out..and i think the style i like is called sleigh bed? maybe..well anyways my friend has one and i really want one to replace my king size bed now..does anyone know if i can find one at jc pennys or something like that? anyone have any experience with this? Thanks in advance (link)
i dont know about JC penny..but i do kknow that pottery barn teen has the CUTEST day beds!!


Hello there. I'm do to horseback riding shows about once a month and get quite a few ribbons from it. I also get trophies (like cups and stuff) for first place, when I get it. Does anyone have any creative ides on where to put my ribbons and trophies?

P.S. I have my ribbons hung on my windows around my room, but just two shows almost fill it up and the top of my bolluntin board is filled with ribbons from my old barn with my old horses. (link)
you should clear off one wall and just hang all of your ribbons on the wall...from the way it sounds, you should have a completly filled wall in no time and that would look soo cool!!!


13 f weight: last time i checked i was around 125-130 ...... okay well im not fat but im not like really skinny either.. i hate my body though, i really really dont like my thighs because i think theyre huge and i told my friend and shes like no mine are huge, and shes like SOO much smaller than me and so that makess me feel even worse about them! i eat so much and try hard not to, what will help make me stop eating so much? helpp, ill rate 5s for good answers (link)
i understand where you are coming from-- there is nothing worse than have super skinny people saying that they are fat.
Good ways to stop eating junk food is to get it out of the house, also you should find alternitives, like get frozen fruit icepops instead of really sugary ones, or get baked potatoe chips instead of ones with a lot of salt, drink diet soda instead of regular, eat cornflakes for breakfast instead of frosted flakes. You can find alternatives for almost anything and they really help!


am 22 years old, i want to know how do i became a nun?
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The best i can tell you, is to contact the church you go to. If you want to become a nun somewhere else, then i would contact that church.

However, if you contact your local church first, then i'm sure they can answer all of your questions.


okay well lately ive really had the urge to have a baby. im 16 and ive been watching kids and playing with my niece ( 2 1/2) and it really makes me want to have one. i dont want one for the sex or anything i just want it for the whole thing pregancy, birth baby everything and going around kids makes me want one more and more. what should i do? i dont live it a kind of neighbor hood where that is really acepted and my parents would kill me if i had a child but i want one so bad like you have no idea what do i do? its not like i can even control these urges they are there



its not like i want to i do but its like this urge that wont go away its all i cant think about. and watching my niece doesnt help it makes me want 1 of my own more.


i know i am emotional stable and if i did get pregnant my family would help me support this child but i know its not how i was raised and there arent alot of teen pregnancies in my more upscale neighborhood but i feel like i cant live without having a child

i also do babysit and work with children (link)
getting pregnant is deffinatly NOT the answer. I realize that you love kids (i do too) but you DONT want to get pregnant when you are sixteen b/c it will ruin your life. You will still be in highschool and you will have trouble with college. If you love kids you should get a job at a daycare center or babysiting. Or you could do a "big sister" kind of program.


i do not understand why everyone is always saying "don't have sex" all i hear from teachers now is "sex will ruin your life, it hurts you, its horrible, don't do it, you'll regret it, yada yada yada" um, you wouldn't be here if it weren't for your parents having sex. teachers shouldn't say this. it is actually a great thing if you do it at the right time. i think they should tell us the disadvantages of having sex when you are young, not just in general NOT HAVING SEX. is there a reason why people tell us this? (link)
its not that sex is this horrible thing, your teachers just dont want your to rush into something your not ready for because most people dont realize that sex has consequences, and that it can spread disease. I agree that sometimes adults overdue it, but they just want you to wait until you are mature enough to make a mature choice.


I didn't exactly know what to put this under.

But anyway, I'm not the richest person you'll ever meet. I live my single mom, and my sister. We don't have THAT much money, but we're not poor or anything. I have like 2 hoodies that actually fit me, and that I like. And I have like 10 t-shirts that I wear. I really hate wearing the same clothes all the time, and I have like no hoodies (especially going into winter). I don't know what to do? I need some "fashion tips" I guess. I shop at Pac Sun and that's why I can't buy that much clothing at once, because of high prices. I like those kinds of clothes though, so where else can I get clothes that I like, but more of it?? (link)
you could always go into a payhalf. I know its not as exciting as going into an abercrombie or pac sun, but there clothes are really cheap. They also have a lot of clothes from bigger stores for a LOT less!


well my family isnt the richest in the world but im ok with that. i mean we aren't poor at all, it's just that i live in a town where probably 75 percent of the people there are really wealthy. everyone here wheres all these really cute clothes and i'm like where did you get those, and their like (this isnt the real name of the store) store b. well i go there and it's like a expensive store and most people here can afford to buy their wardrobe here. my parents said they will buy me something there once in a while but not always. i really want to find out how i can somehow make money to buy these cute clothes cause i love literally everything in there but i can't buy alot of stuff there. i dont want to get stuff there cause everyone else does but because i love the clothes!! (link)
you should babysit. you can usually make about 10 dollars an hour which can be anywhere from 60- 70 dollars a night. Also, maybe your parents would be willing to buy you more clothes there if you payed for half. Also, you could ask your parents if you could do chores around the house to earn the clothes.

good luck!


i REALLY want to shop at a&f and hollister and stores like that. it's not because everyone else does, it's because personally i like there clothes. my parents make me shop at wal mart and it's messing up my social life. i hate wal mart's clothes and shit and my friends ask me why i don't wear the good brands. and it's not like my family can't afford good clothes, because my dad's a multi millionaire. they just don't understand WHY i want to spend so much on clothes. i've made up my mind and don't tell me it doesn't matter what i wear because i'll give you a 1. i need to prove to my parents that shopping at the expensive stores is worth it. and i can't make any money on my own because if i do, my parents say I CANT spend it on a&f and hollister clothes. it's messing up my social life. i wont have friends ever again because i cant wear nice clothes. im done with wal mart so what can i say to my parents so they'll let me shop where i want ?!? i'm old enough to choose where i want to purchase my clothes, especially when my dad was over 1 million dollars.

anything good will get you a 5
i promise (link)
IF YOUR SOCIAL LIFE WOULD BE RUINED BECAUSE YOU DONT WEAR "GOOD BRAND CLOTHES" THEN YOUR FRIENDS SUCK AND ARE REALLLLLLY BAD FRIENDS!!!!!!!!!!!

i understand that you like those stores-- i lovee them and i shop there all the time. but you should just ask your parents if you can buy half of your clothes at wal mart and half at abercrombie.

p.s GET NEW FRIENDS


hey im a 26/f married,and i recently found out that im pregnant and i need some creative ways to tell my parents and my inlaws, im my parents only child so my pregnancy is really going to be exciting for them and i'll be the first pregnant out of my husbands family too so i need some thing really good and creative. thanx a bunch (link)
play pictionary- and when its your turn to draw...draw out that "i am pregnant" OR you could take your mom and your mother in law shopping and go into a baby store or a maternity store
CONGRATS AND GOOD LUCK


Finals are this week. Whats a good way to study. Or at least for bio..Last time I studied six hours and I got a 76..um..there is obviously something wrong. Can anybody help? (link)
bio is realllly hard (trust me...i hate that class) but its important that when you are studying you dont overload it. Take a break every so often because you want your brain to rest and you dont want to get board because then you are just reading notes, but you arent comprehending the information

GoOD LUCK!


I was at my cousins house yesterday and she cussed me out and I was wondering what I should do about it becouse if I tell my mom she won't let me go to her house anymore and my cousin and I are like sisters so I don't want that to happen what should I do? (link)
tell her that your mad...and then see what she says. You dont have to tell your mom.


14/f...ive been going out with my boyfriend for about three weeks and his birthday is on the last day of school. One of my friends is throwing an end of school party on the last day of school (his bday). I can't bring him to the party because ALL my friends don't like him at all; they won't let me bring him basically. We've already talked about his birthday but I haven't had the courage to tell him that I would rather go to my friends party but I don't know how to tell him. What should I do? (link)
i understand what you are saying...BUT DONT LEAD HIM ON!! You dont want him thinking you are going to hang out with him if you arent and you dont want your friends thinking you are going to the party if your not.




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