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I am 14/f
i like this guy but i am afriad to talk to him becuase i dont think he will like me back. I also think he still likes his ex-girlfriend. Do you think i should talk to him and if so, how do i talk to him?

if you dont think he'll like you then theres nothing wrong with a friend..and once hes over his ex then try something more ...but let him still like his ex..juss be his friend

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I'm thinking about eventually getting colored contacts. I already wear contacts because of my poor vision. There are 2 parts to my question. The first part is, do they make prescription colored contacts? The second part is what would be the best color to use? I have dark brown eyes if that helps. Thanks a bunch!

yes i think they do make perscrpition colored contacts..i think a hazel or a copper type color will be good..

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me 15 boyfriend 17

ok..well i cheated on my boyfreind twice..n he says he loves me alot n i belive him n i really care for him alot...i jst don't know y i did it! but i talked to him tonite about it n he said if i ever cheated on him hed dumb me...so it was jst a plan out emotional convo...n i told him he shouldn't love me cuz i think i might mess up n cheat on him...cuz thats wat happened w/ the last guy that meant alot to me...well i'm scared that i'm goind to cheat on him n i don't want that to happen...but then i don't want to lose him cuz i really love him alot...wat should i do?

you need to let yourself kno that if he means soo much to you any other guy shouldnt matter only the one you love...he should be your only guy so juss try and focus on him and when you get "tempted" just try and remind yourself that you love him too much to hurt him..

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OK ive been going out with my bf for a week so far but I'm still kinda nervous around him cuz I like him so much. I want to surprise him and kiss him in like an empty hall tomorrow when we're walking together to show him that I really like him but I need like a game plan here lol can anyone help me out ? Thanks so much!

when yall are walkin..right b4 yall leave eachother when you hug (if you dont, do it) and right b4 u let go juss kiss him..

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Ok I just got over this relationship from an online girl. We were together 5 months but she held so many lies to me and I never saw her. She lived like 4.5 hours away from me tho. But here is the question. I meet this other girl and she likes me and I like her. She lives in the same state and pretty close. How should I go about this without getting hurt again? I would love to be with her but just am scared i'll be hurt. Please help all that can. Thanks Much

ok im sorry to say this but you need to get a girlfriend who lives right by you and if you go to school the same school as you not "cyber girlfriends" they wont work out

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well i havnt had my period and i take a shower everyday and stuff but i keep having this like gupy sticky white wet stuff comin out of well u no....and its always wet down there and i dont no y....it also smells bad. Is there sumthin wrong with me? What is this?

its discharge.. go to www.teenwire.com find out more

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Well, ok my b/f moved to Oregon like 1 month ago and we are still goin out..coming up on our 11month anniversary. I miss him sooo much and i dont know what to do. There's this guy at my new skool that likes me and i donno if i like him...but i kinda flirt with him. I think that i do that cuz i miss flirtin with my b/f..even though me n my b/f talk every night..my heart aches all the time. I really donno what to do..i love him and yet we are so far apart. I dont wanna loose him :`(

hey hun, your like me except me and my EX only live 20min's away but dont ever get to see eachother!!...it sux but ima let you kno your gunna make a mistake and do somethin with this new guy..i did it..

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I always feel left out and out of place and I always wonder what life would be like without me. I know I have friends who love me but I always end up thinking what would happen if i died... would it make a big difference? I especially wonder what my ex-boy friend would say ... I just want to feel needed, someone who will love me back ... some how when i have a boy friend or someone close to me i feel like i have a purpose ... is that normal ... to want to be needed?

yes it is..everyone wants to be loved and have some1 to be there for them...tell you ex (if you do) you want him back! or go and get you another man!!

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so i need some advice.. i don't get to see my b/f that much, i'm used to seeing him all the time, we practically spent the whole summer together.. but now that school has started and stuff we don't really get to see each other.. plus he has football practice tues-fri.. games on sat.. so i got to see him sat. for like an hour? maybe. i didn't see him yesterday but i was with him today, at the library, with one of his friends.. so yea it wasn't that exciting.. but anyways.. when we were leaving he asked if he could get a hug which should have been obvious b/c we always hug/kiss when we leave each other.. so it was like 7:00.. but i said no (but i was jokin) b/c ur mean.. (b/c i didn't want him to leave) but i guess he didn't know i was jokin or w/e b/c he kinda walked away and left.. so i called him while i was walkin home and i was like ur mean and he like hung up on me so i was like ok.. so now i'm home and i'm like real upset cuz i didn't get that hug/kiss and i was kinda lookin forward to it and now i regret that.. so i called him around 7:30 to see if he could come back out or if he was mad at me or w/e but i think he turned his phone off.. and i can't call his house phone i just can't.. so now i dunno wut to do.. i left him message and after i wrote this i was gonna e-mail him.. but my only other option is to wait until he gets online but i dunno if he will cuz he might be mad at me or something.. so wut should i do??

you need to call his house phone and let him kno that you were kidding!..talk to him about it..get things straight..

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if your 65 inches.. how tall are you?

5'5" ...need anymore help IM me... sMiLiNALl4U

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Hey, Im 13 and Im in 8th grade, and I have a crush on Travis my friend hes also 13 and in 8th grade. We have alot in common, but Ive always been kinda shy and not telling people that I like them. But i wrote travis a note one day that i thought he was hott i didnt get a bad responce:) or a good one :(, and nothing is different between us and we are still good friends, i talk to him all the time. I wanna go out with him, but Im afraid of rejection so I dont know if I should ask him out. I feel that he might like me but I can never be positive. One of my bestfriends, Brittany thinks I should ask him out cuz if i dont i might miss a chance to go out with him if he likes me, and he might get over me and go out with someone else:( SO... my question is should i ask him out, i would really appreaciate your advice! THANKS!

hey im just wonderin who is this because this sounds too fimilar...if ya kno what im sayin!!...
IM me.. on sMiLiNALl4U

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whats a "tease?"
plz respond asap!

when you come off as bein the girl all the guys want for the wrong reason... and you would do things with him but you wouldnt really

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theres this guy i like.. we tlk like were goin out like baby .. u kno? well he kinda has a rep like tha kinda guy that uses grls i guess? i kno he hasnt had a gf in alongggg time cuz he doesnt ask a grl unless he rele wants to b with em.. other than that he juss has hook ups.. he seid he was goin ask me out buh i dont kno what ot think.. will he play me or will he actually commit? .. i asked him if he juss wanted to come to have sex with me.. cuz i kno he trys to buhh i never do anything with him cuz i dont want him to see me as a ho cuz im not! and tha only way id do anything with him is if im his gf .. andd i told him that buh i guess now hes thinkin im not interested in him at all cuz of it.. i dunt know!

well you said he wont ask a girl unless he rly wants to be with them...so i think he will but thats juss me..

i hope i helped!

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I have already told my old BF how i feel about him and why i broke up with him and anyone else ive gone out with. he still thinks that im going to go out with him again and start to like someone else after a while and have me break up with him again.. so in other words i think he's scared of getting his heart broken by me again and again. i told my friend how i feel towards him and he told me that he didnt like me, he just wants to stay friends. so they both know how i feel about them, i just dont know how i should feel!!

hey hun, try convencing your old boyfriend that you (if you do) love him and want to be with him tell him you made a mistake and youve learned from it ...let him know again and again how you feel and tell him hes gunna hear the same thing over and over agian till he believes you...dont just give up!!

need anymore just leave another in the inbox!! or IM me on aSweetGoodBy
~hope i helped~

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There's this boy named cory that goes to my school. Hes really nice when we're alone or somethin is wrong and im pissed (like me and my "friend" got in a fight and he was there to "try" and fix it). Well anyways... I think I like him and I think he likes me, but i jus dont wanna see dumb, cuz i asked him out be4, and i usually dont do that. He is super nice, and flirts with me all the time and i of course flirt back. We spend so much time together, people are ALWAYS like, do u go 2gether. He like picks me up and carries me around and stuff. Do you think I should go with him or somethin? If u need nemore info, jus ask!!

sounds to me like yall both have feelings for eachother and need to go out and see how things go...
~Good Luck!!~

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me and my friend both like guys from different states... and they like us back... we have so much fun with them... when we see them... should we feel guilty if we dated another guy?
plz help!

no not at all

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My little sister is a freshman this year. We live about 1 1/2 miles from the homecoming football feild, and our parents are going to be out of town so our mom said she can have 5 of her friends sleep over after the game. What are some ideas for them to get home safely (without being egged to death by the seniors) without a car?

you should get your mom to pick them up or you pick them up

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my hair is really frizzy does any1 have a good idea on how to make it less frizzy thanxs

try bio-silk

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so...i was giving this 1 guy head...and when i was he started pushing down on my head...why did he do that and what does it mean?! Thanx so much!

he wanted you to go deeper ...that means he liked it!

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well.. i wrote the other day and i told yall that there was this guy on my bus.. and he asked me out.. and i said no.. hahaha.. cuz i thought he was joking.. but he wasnt.. and yea.. so.. me and him are cool again.. but there is this one little girl who likes him.. and everytime he is with me.. she starts talking mess about me to all her little friends.. so.. i didnt want that.. so today.. he went up to talk to me.. and he was like.. " hey.. so you gunna holla at me or wut? " and i was like.. oh.. nope.. srry.. jessie might get mad.. and he was like what?? so.. i told him she was talking mess.. and now hes mad at her.. and shes even more mad at me.. so.. i dont know what to do.. should i stop talking to him?? or what?? ill rate ya if you give good advice :)

no you shouldnt stop talkin to him personally i think you need to go out with him for get what that little girl says she may start crap but thats okay if you like him and he likes you...thats all that matter!!

~Good Luck~

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