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14/f

Ok so this guy is a junior and I'm a freshman. I don't really like him. I don't think. I'm just so confused. He is one of the coolest guys I know and he is my friend. Like he is says some other girl is hot or something I really don't care because I don't have those feelings for him I guess? But I love being around him and I think about him all the time. For one thing, I would never go out with him because I love how it is right now and he is so easy to talk to. I think he is cute but I don't like him I guess. Its either I'm fighting it or something. But I'm just so confused. Maybe I'm just in love with our friendship? haha I know this might be a little confusing but I just need to know if like I love being around this guy and love talking to him and think about him alot. Do I like him? I just don't feel like I do. Thanks for any help at all.

Your in love with the idea of being friends with an upperclassman. Which there is nothing wrong with. He's a fun, cool guy you like to be around and you pretty much look up to him like an older brother. You don't like him, nor should you start. Keep the friendship going! :)

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Me and my girlfriend have been going out for about three years and she is the one who first brought up the idea of a three some so how do i get her to follow through

LOL well, compromise. Have 2 3 sums. One will be you two and a girl. The other, you 2 and another guy. Then ask your self, are you ok with that? Would you really want to share that one person you love oh so much with someone else? She probably wouldn't either buddy.

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sorry it's kind of long... anyway,
i'm a 17f. i've never been kissed, and never been in any sort of relationship... all my life i've said "i don't want to be in a relationship", and "they're nothing but problems." but really, it's all i want lately... i feel like it's getting too late and it's never going to happen... i see couples and it kills me inside, i just look and wish i had what they've got. i guess i just want someone who's perfect for me, and i haven't found him. i don't want to settle for just anyone, i want something real... first problem is i barely know any boys that're actually available or that i'm even merely interested in. how should i meet new people?.. another thing is that it doesn't help that my self-esteem isn't the greatest, and i kind of act a little on the bitchy side with boys when i'm nervous. i don't know any other way to express myself really... but could that really make boys not even try? i don't know, i'm just sick of being single, and feeling lonely when i'm out with friends (all couples). i need help on changing this big time, i feel like a loser... i'm so confused...any suggestions? thanks for reading :)

Well, first impressions do make a good impact. Ask your self "Would I want to try and get with a boy who came off as a jerk?" Probably not. So yeah, boys get turned off by that REAL fast. But the first thing you need to work on is that self esteem! When you work on that, then the whole urge to always be "biotchy" will wear off. Just always think postive :) let the boys know your interested! Let your friends know, too and they could probably hook you up with a couple dates ;)

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What is a really good moisturizer? My skin is super dry, flaky, scaley (whatever) and rough and i want it back to my baby soft skin. it is really dry from vacation (really hot/humid and tons of sun exposure) and my new acne medicine so i need some great moisturizer

In my dermatologist's opinion, Cetaphil works best, and I agree :) You don't need a prescription. It's sold at Walgreens and probably Walmart. When your done washing your face/getting out of the shower, make sure your face is completely dry. Then apply your acne medicine then when that's dry, apply the lotion. Hope this helps! :)

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hey i just got a playstation 2, and i was wondering if the memory card comes in the pack or if you have to buy it separate? because I didn't have a memory card in the pack i bought and they instructions made it seem like there should be one included??

You have to buy it separate, sorry buddy!

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Are laptops & computers the same thing?

Soo the answers below mine are good, but not exactly correct. A laptop is a TYPE of computer. There are laptops and then there are DESKTOPS. A laptop you can bring with you anywhere, where as a desktop you set up at an area where it stays at all times.

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16/f
At school, we are doing something called "Dancing with the Teachers." It's like Dancing with the Stars, but it's students dancing with teachers. The profits are to help students go on a mission trip to Jamaica.
My partner is my favorite teacher. He is 49/m. This is all just for like .. fun. So it doesnt have to be hardcore.
I am a dancer. Over the years I've done acro, tap, jazz, ballet, pointe, lyrical, modern, and hip hop.
My Question: What kind of dance should I do with him? It can be anything. Any type of ballroom isnt out of the question because my aunt is a professional and could make us a routine.

Do something from the 50's. He'd like that cause it's his era and plus he'd be able to do it. Butttt then you should tie in some like cool hip hop moved too. I think that would be cute andd fun!

:)

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okay i need to pick a female saint name for confirmation. i guess we can pick any saint we want it just has to be our same gender. we also have to write a report about the saint we choose. i cant decide on one. my name is ashlee and even though we shouldnt pick names by how it sounds, i dont want it to sound horrible. and i dont want anything like old sounding. and i want a said that has a really interesting story behind them. does anyone know of any almost like quizzes that help pick one? but if anyone has any saints that match what im looking for or if you have any websites that have really detailed stories of saints let me know!!!!!!
-thankss

I'm making my confirmation and communion this Easter, too! haha

Well, my real name is Andrea. That's a saints name.
It's NOT pronounced ANN-DRAY-UH
It's ANN-DREE(long E)-UH. ha.

I picked Cassandra for my saints name.
Here's a website with a list of names.

http://wordbytes.org/saints/names.htm


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I want to go to Harvard, Yale, or Stanford


--those are my top 3 in order--

I'm 13/f and i'm about to finish 8th grade in June and go to high school in Augest.

what grades do i need to get in high school to get in also what other things do you need to do to get in.

all advice welcome.

people who got in please tell me what grades you got and what extra cariculars you did

thanks in advancee!!

Stright A's.
NO B's.
Just A's!
ANDDDD get involved with sports, acting, choir, stuff like that.

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My friend and I are trying to download the program VirtualDub. As far as we know, we have downloaded it correctly. But, when I try to open a video in it, it is an incorrect file.
Does anyone know how i can change the file to what it needs to be to work with the program? Sorry i don't know anything else about it. Any help will..well, help!
Thanks!

Download another file. Seems like that was has a bug.

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Hello, I have a sidekick LX, and I use the sklxthemes.com website to get themes for it, the problem is I cannot get them onto my phone.

I've searched google, and Youtube for videos and watched them, but they didn't work for me. If any one else knows how to do this, or can help me find a place that'd be great. Suggestions help too!

Thanks so much !

The side kick doesn't allow you to download illegal themes.

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I was playing this game on real arcade and there was a song simon says drum battle and i mean i liked it. Is there anywhere i could find that??? ANYWHERE would make me happy. Omg thanks. :]

www.youtube.com


www.myspace.com

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Is there anywhere I can get smosh ringtones and wallpapers online? Usually those 'make your own ringtone' websites don't work. And I can't get on a website from my phone so no websites where you gotta get it from there. xD Thanks.

I get my stuff from here:


http://www.myxertones.com/

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ok so im 14 and my bf is 16 and when we start to makeout i kinda 'tingle' and get wet obviously and thats in the beginning i 'tingle' and then idk just get wet or w/e but with him i was wondering he gets a boner when we makeout but is that like in the beginning he feels that way or probably just throughout when i do more sexy things like rub his lower back and kiss his neck and stuff. those r 2 things he loves. so i was wondering does he probably get a boner from what we do throughout like touching and when i sit in his lap and kiss him or starts to from the beginning just cause hes kissing me? thanks so much! im just wondering about how boners work with guys so if you could fill me in i would def. appreciate it!! and i will rate! thanks so much!! :)

Well, every guy is different. Guys get boners from being turned out. SOOO find out the things that turn him on. You already found two of them, so work from there! haha

:)

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Do Ive league Universities accept students from community colleges.. ever? Like lets say I'm a A/B student in highschool (definitely not enough to get me in to onve of the big schools) and I go to community college or a junior college or whatever (what's the difference?) and I get all A's there.. can i transfer in to an Ivy league school?

Is there anything else I can do if I didn't get into my first choice now and have a year to spare and use for improving my chances into getting in?

It's really hard getting into one of those kind of schools. The only thing you can really do is try your hardest. But honestly, what's the point of getting into one of those schools? You can get the same education at a place where you can afford it somewhere else. The only reason people like going to THOSE kind of schools is be be able to say "I went to Harvard" Why go into debt just to be able to say that? Think about it.

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Okay so i really want to start ice skating lessons and i'm 13/f. i'm i can skate and like turn and stuff but like is it a little to late in my life to start?

all advice welcome

ice skaters PLEASEEE answerrr!!

Of course it's not too late to start!
Just look around for places around where you live and get a teacher.

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Hi, this questions is mainly for people who are in Michigan.
I live in Southfield Michigan. I have been looking for a good job now for about a year and a 1/2. The thing is that I am 24 I have an apartment, I really need to bring in about $1500+ a month to do everything I need to do. I have experience working in offices, but mostly in restaurants. I was a server for about 2 years and some months. I am used to making $100 a night or more and so 7.50 for 3 hours a day is pretty awkward. I am greatful for my job cause it is relaxed and I get along with everyone, but I would like to have another place, that is wholesome (which means no strip clubs) and has good pay, that will give me a chance and treat me well. I am a good worker, I always get along with everyone, and if there is someone I don't get along with...more than likely neither does anyone else. :P I say that to let you know what I mean by easy to get along with. :) I am also good at Data Entry. I never had a job doing it, but I took a test at this place...like a job agency and they said I did like above average on the little test for a beginer. So If anyone out there knows somewhere I can get an entry level job doing that or serving or maybe working with children (but not babysitting) Then I would really appreciate it. I am alreayd registered with:
Kelly services, Aerotec, Snag a Job, Monster Jobs and a few other places that I can't remember off hand. Thank you. Peace.

What about working as a substitute teacher? After a certain amount of time as working as a sub you can become a kindergarten teacher without going to college or anything.

Just something to think about :)

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How do I remove silly putty from a t-shirt. Its my favorite shirt and I need help now.

Use a cotton ball and rub rubbing alcohol on it.
Then use a kitchen knife or a credit card or something to scrap off the extra putty. Hope this helps! :)

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14/f what were some inventions created in the u.s. during the industrial period like mid to late 1800's ? also how could I advertise a certain one?

A telegraph system allowed information to flow from place to place more quickly than the speed of a horse.

A transportation system based largely on steam power allowed goods to be shipped great distances at reduced expense

The cotton gin

The steam engine

Hope these helped! :)

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There is this guy named bob...ive liked him for a month adn wanted to know if he liked me, we hang out with different groups (14/f, hes 14/m) and so i asked him who do you like and then he describes me, then says 'michelle' and i was stunned. He always flirts with me and stuff and is always looking at me, and never at michelle, so whats up? does he like me and doesnt want to tell me? or am i just too in 'like' to give him up?

If I were you, I'd probably tell him how I felt.

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