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ok here is the thing my parents have been divorced for 8 years now and my dad got remarried like 2 years ago and i am fine wit that bcuz i like his wife. But now my mom has started datin this guy that is 18 years younger then her and i don't like him like at all and what makes me really mad is that my family is straped for money and there r some things i NEED and my mom goes and buys the guy random expensive gift just bcuz he likes it. And she drives 2 hours back and forth 2 pick him up just 2 spend the night wit him and "talk" (he doesn't have a car right now) and that is wastin alot of our money in gas. just how can i tell my mom how i feel and isn't that ur parents should have u kids approve of the person 2 cuz if ur kids don't like them then how will that work. someone help what can i do, say or nething? sometime i just wanna runaway cuz she pisses me off sooo much HELP!!!!
18 years younger is absurd!!!
my belly button is red and has like pus stuff coming out of it sometimes..it scares me..anyone know what this is or how to treat it? ive been putting Lubriderm Aloe Vera Body Lotion on it
Stop putting on the lotion and go see a docter A.S.A.P. I hoped i helped!! :)
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I am currently a first year university student. I have a problem with a talkative person that always comes to sit next to me during lectures. It is extremely annoying to have someone talk during a lecture, especially to you. It is also annoying to have people in the lecture give you dirty looks for 'disrupting' everything when you haven't said a word at all. That is besides the point. I am wondering what possible things can I do to keep this person from talking or sitting next to or near me? I have tried to be nice, and I have tried to be rude and forward - neither works. I have explicitly told this person that they need to shut up so I can listen and they responded, "Ok but just listen to this..." It is beyond the point of frustration. Even when I move, that person always shows up to where ever I am and manages to find me. I cannot come late because a) I am already in that lecture hall from a class directly before and b) because this person is always very very late to the point of getting into a seat right as the lecture is starting. I am not entirely comfortable with asking a random person to please 'sit in this seat next to me, please oh please.'
Whatever can I do?!
Sit where there is no empty seat next to you so the person can't sit next to you... I hoped i helped!! :)
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Anyone have any good pranks i can play on my sister and her friend while we hand out candy?
The original prank is to spray silly string right when the trick-or-treaters ring the doorbell. Or you can throw waterballoons from a higher window... I hoped i helped!! :)
my question is that i asked my bf if he looks @ porn he said yeah and he was being porn but like a couple of Months ago he said he only looked at it when he was single but before i was like wow he looks @ that and he said he loves me and shit?? what should i do?
Just tell him to stop looking at porn because it upsets you... I hoped i helped!! :)
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ok ive kissed before and all i mean i know how but when ever my boyfriend wanted to french i always got scared i wouldnt be good enough of a kisser for him ..how can i change that?
Don't worry about! Just go with the flow and it will come naturally... I hoped i helped!! :)
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SO yeah .. there's this guy. I'm not sure what grade he's in. But everytime I am near him ..walking past him or just standing there.. he always turns to look at me. Just stares at me.. dead in the eye..sometimes even smiles.
the thing is .. i know who this guy is. well i know who most of his friends are.
i told one of my friends about him .. "hey theres that 'creepy' guy that always stares at me.. thats him".. and shes like "ohh thats him? I know him!".. and she told me his name..."oh he thinks youre pertty!" and i said "really? how.. why what has he said?" and she said "um, we were in the bus and we saw you walking outside and he asked me 'hey do you think that girl is pretty?'..and I was like yeah." And she said that most likely he didnt just ask if he thought i was pretty because he didnt think i was! u know? Well thing is.. i always see him right.. and I WISH i had the courage to talk to him.
its so cute too.. this past thursday i was going to my 2nd period and there he was coming my direction..with his hair covering his face as he looked at me between the spaces of his hair.. and i moved to the side and i noticed he got nervous because he stopped to let me pass by. I smiled as i kept walking because i thought it was funny.
i would like to get to nkow him.. just talk to him.. man.. i need help...
thing is.. most of hsi friends KNOW ME (i dont know all theirnames).but they know who I am... and most of their CHICK friends dont like me because of this girl that started rumors about me because the guy that she liked.. liked me instead.(which i never went out with .. yet)..
i cant explain myself.. PLEASE HELP
[14 yr female gr10]
Don't let those other chicks get to you... Just get your courage and talk to him in the hallway, not so hard. I hoped i helped!! :)
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All right, I have a friend Lizzie, and we are really close. She has a group of friends that I always knew didn't like me that much, and that never bothered me. but all of a sudden she's telling me that she can only hang out with me on the bus on Thursdays, and doesn't talk to me anymore. I know I should give up on her but she's my best friend!! Please tell me what to do.
I know Lizzie is your best friends, but you have to forget about her! She is no friend of your if she just drops you like that!!! Get into more school activities and talk to other people in your classes and eventually will find a new best friend... I hoped i helped!! :)
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Hey, my friend Emily is 14 and she just recently started to look up porn on the internet. I was thinking, this girl is 14! But, do you think it's normal for a girl in her young teens to look up adult images on the net? I need to know so I can tell her! Please help and I would really appreciate it! Thank you so much! - Serena
I think that is a little young, but it is better than sleeping with guys... Just don't let her become addicted to it... I hoped i helped!! :)
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There is this guy i like and he likes my friend but she doesn't like him back and she keeps askin him y he won't go for me and whatever and he says he can only like 1 person at a time and she told him she doesn't even wanna go out wit him but i would. how can i get him 2 become interseted in me or nething that will help me in this situation. thanks i will rate u
Spend more time with him... Don't be like you are obsessed with him though... Don't change drastically though... I hoped i helped!! :)
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I've liked this one guy, Bob, for a while now. And he said he likes me and all, but he also likes a couple other girls. He told me this maybe a month or two ago, so I'm starting to think that he just likes being liked (because a lot of girls like him). And I'm starting to think that he doesnt really like me, even if he does act like it.
Anyway, I met this other guy, Bill, and I'm starting to really like him. and i heard that he wants to ask me out. but i still like Bob a little bit. even though im getting over him pretty fast.
should i go out with Bill even though I still kind of like Bob? or should i wait until I'm fully over Bob to go out with Bill?
thanks so much
Go out with Bill. You will forget about Bob faster than you know it... Bob sounds like a playa anyway... I hoped i helped!! :)
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I haven't heard from my boyfriend at all since friday. He hasn't called or texted or anything. I've texted him but he hasn't texted back and I called him yesterday but he didn't pick up. I know that he's gone away for the weekend but he would always have his phone on him. I'm getting worried.
Don't worry, he is probably just having fun and maybe can't get reception where he is at... I hoped i helped!! :)
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I am 15 (almost 16) and I'm a female. There are some guys at school that like me. I know this because they have said it to me or to my best friend. One is a year older than me, and he kinda scares me. He doesn't know what flirting is. He kinda acts as though we are going out right now, but we're not and probably never will. He's always touching me and tries to get me away alone. What should i do about him?
Then there is this other guy. Lets say his name is Joe. Joe is really sweet and he respects me and my boundaries. I've liked him since last year and he just told me that he likes me as well. But, there are a few problems with that. First, I'm not allowed to date til I'm 16 (January), and then there is the guy that I described above. Its like he is trying to get Joe and I farther apart. The first guy is really starting to disturb and scare me. Joe and I like each other a TON, but then there is the other dude. What is your advice for this situation? What would you do to tell the other dude that you're just not interested in him like that? And what should Joe and I do? Thanks in advance.
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Confused and Weirded Out
Just tell the weird guy to back off and get "Joe" to help you too! Don't do it in like a nice way, cuss him out, it never works if you try to be nice. Just pretend at school that you and Joe are going out and then he might get the point. January is not far off, so you can probably just hang-out with Joe until then... I hoped i helped!! :)
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I am a 21 year old female and went out with a guy at uni, who messed me around a fair bit. He was from the Channel Islands and we knew it would be hard to keep seeing each other. We finished towards the end of uni because of this and I was gutted. He said it was best we didnt have contact, as it made things easier. Then I saw him in a pub and he begged for me back, saying he missed me and couldn't be without me. He even said he'd do anything to get me to come to live near him (he actually helped me apply for a job over there)and things were great. We finished uni, etc and it turned out it would be a while until I could get over there and then the job wasnt guaranteed. Sadly, we decided to finish it. We promised to stay friends and arranged to meet when he came over here. He seemed so excited to se me. Thing is, when it came to the time he came over he just totally ignored my text and phonecall so we never met up and I havent heard from him since (I text him recently to say hi). He has met someone else and I have too but I just cant understand why he has done this and I cant forget him! Its really stopping me from moving on. Any ideas on how I can forget him and any ideas why he has done this? Thanks for your time!
Try to hang with the guy you might as much as possible and maybe party a lot and try to have as much fun as possible and eventually forget him. Like put away any pictures of him away and erase all his numbers and e-mails... He probably did this because he wants to forget so he doesn't have to live with the pain... I hoped i helped!! :)
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Hi,my name is dania and i have a cousin "T". well about two years ago, T met this guy,"B" online and so they have been talking on the PHONE too most of the time.Well, B has a freind and i like him, i did talk to him on the phone a lil. anyway, is it okay to have a phone relationship as long as it doesnt cross the line? (u know, telling him the adress or like sexual things?) wouldnt it be like a long distance relationship thing? please help! thank u soooo much!
To me, i think it's not good to have a relationship with someone you haven't met... I guess it's okay, but don't let him know like the really personal things... I hoped i helped!! :)
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Ok, I have 2 years to lose 100 pounds or so! I need help though lol. What is the best diet south beach,atkins, ect. Like what should I do. And do you think it would take 2 years or shorter? And what should i NOT eat. Thanks if you can help me!
Do the diet where you count your calories... i forgot what it is called though - my grandmother is doing it and she has last a lot of punds - Don't cut sweets out of your diet completely, but odn't eat a lot!! Eat more frutis and vegetables... If you drink soft drinks, only drink 1 a week! Don't eat a lot of grains... if you do, eat like wheat bread. And excercise atleast 3 - 4 days a week for an hour. I hoped i helped!! :)
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i have this really long closet...and im just wondering if there is any ways i can re-organize...
Yeah, just go to Wal-Mart or Target - i prefer Target lol - and buy some shelves to put some of your clothes in and when hanging all you clothes, do it by seasons if you know what i mean... Like put all the stuff for the summer and spring to the front and everything for fall and winter close to the back.. and if you have clothes that will go with any season, put it exactly in the middle - like jeans and stuff like that - I hoped i helped!! :)
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lately i have been feeling depressed!!...HONESTLY! i have nothing to be upset about...its just i dont even know!!...im not sure why i feel this way, but i just feel all shity and lazy, and i just wanna sit there, or lay in bed and start crying without thinking of anything!! does anyone know what is wrong with me?!
Talk to a friend first... and if that doesn't help, go visit a doctor and can subscribe you to anti-depressants... I hoped i helped!! :)
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me and my boi frend have been 2getha 4 a month!!...but have been talkin longer than that!! we are REALLY close!! nd startin 2 fall in luv alreadie!!..but wen we talk on tha fone...its alwaez silent!!...but if we text or chat online..we alwaez got sumthin 2 sae..or if were 2getha..we'll talk..but mostly make out!!...any advice?!
Your boyfriend is just not a phone talking person... You can chat less online, then you have more to say on the phone... Hun, you got communication, there is really no problem... I hoped i helped!! :)
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ive had a really rough year. just when it seems like things will get better, they get worse. ive thought about suicide and have tried taking pills and cutting myself (only once though). im never happy anymore and when im by myself i cry a lot. i think i need help. how do i change myself? i wanna be happy like i used to, but nothing can make this feeling inside of me go away.
Whatever you do... DON'T COMMIT SUICIDE!!! Go see a therapist and they can subscribe you to an anti-depressant. And get more involved in school activities and you can meet new friends! I hoped i helped!! :)
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